Hey Coach,
I never played for you, but you sure have kept me straight through the years. I look forward to working with you this spring over at the ball fields. You are big help to me and you have also been an encourager.
Hope you are feeling better soon and see you at the fields!!!!!
Coach A and Mrs. A,
I wanted to let you both know that I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Although I have now left the U of M I will always be thankful that I had the opportunity to work with such a great man. I hope that everything turns out for the best and if there is ever anything that I can do to help please feel free to contact me.
Without a doubt, my fondest (and not so fondest) memories are of Coach Armstrong roaming the halls of the dorm. I still wake my kids up every morning with the call, “get up, get up…it’s time to go to college!” I also remember the feeling that the “dorm daddy” was always there if you needed him. My days in the dorm would not have been nearly as awesome without Coach Armstrong and his family. Thank you, Coach, for your influence, leadership, and strength during a time when this young man needed it.
Coach, Wish you the best, to you and your family…
You called me “Whizzer White” many times. I always will respect you,
and your daily effort, and attitude. Perhaps, on of the brightest
coaches I know. A great husband and father as well as Coach.
proud to have played for you, Your Trenton, Tn. friend, Johnny White
The best special teams coach that the Tigers have ever had. We have never been the same since you left. You were a tremendous asset to the program and university.
Big Daddy !!
I am forever grateful to you and Mrs. A for always being there for all of us in the dorm. Coach, I love and respect you more than words can express. You have been one of the greatest mentors in my life, and I would not be half the man or Memphis Tiger I am without your help. You made waking up every day in the dorm something to look forward to, with your calls of “College Time.” But of course my favorite was, “Isbell, get your coloring books and crayons, it’s College Time!!!! Coach, you and your family have meant so much, not only to me, but to thousands of young men who came under your tutelage at the U of M. I hope you are doing well and I know the family will take good care of you. Thank you for being one of my greatest teachers of life I have ever known and thank you for being my friend. You and your family are in my prayers daily. May God grant you strength and comfort in your hour of need. God’s Peace.
Coach,
In the years surrounding 1980 I was a club sport member of the handball team and a member of the Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity just down Normal St. from your athletic dorm. Consequently I ran into you quite often around campus. I remember so well how engaging you were to me on every occasion we met. You never failed to smile, greet me and take time to pass small talk.
I also recall you being present a few of the times I picked up Stan Bronson to give him a ride home from the athletic dorm area. I haven’t heard anyone mention Stan in a long time.
You meant a lot to many of us non-athletic scholarship students, too.
With fond memories and prayers,
Bill Daniels
Class of ’81
P.S. Coach Maurice Knight taught my civics class at East High School in Memphis. Hey Coach Knight!
I wanted to let you and Mrs. A know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for all you have done for so many of us that were fortunate enough to be touched by your life. If there is ever anything that I may do for you or your family, please do not hesitate to call on me the way we all called on you so many times.
Coach Armstrong, My name is Chris Shackleford and I played under Stobart and rip Scher from 93-95. You might not remember me, but I deff. remember you. That shows you what kind of a man you are. Inspirational,and memorable. Thank you for touching my life for the brief time we spent together.
I hope this finds the “BIG VOL” feeling well and receiving all the care necessary. You were my first coach at MSU in 1963. I was a redshirt that had just been discharged from the US Army. Richard Coady and I played guards on your redshirt team.
It is nice to have this convenient way to communicate with you. I had hoped that you were going to be able to be at the reunion back in April but I was told you were feeling up to it.
I know you have been through alot fighting this cancer. Keep in mind you have many friends and ex-ballplayers that are thinking of you and will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. May God hold you in the palm of his hand and ease all your pain and give you the strength to handle what is to come.
Thanks for you guidance and help those many years ago. They were appreciate then and now.
Hey Coach it has been years since I have seen or talked with you but Mickey Watson and I share many good stories. We live in the same town (Camden, Tn.) and sit together at the football games. You and your family are in my prayers. You have been a postive influence in my life and I thank you for looking out for me and the rest of the football managers. Best wishes Coach!!
Coach,
I was not blessed to personally know you at the U of M in my short summer there, but I certainly enjoyed your talk to the Highland Hundred a year or so ago. Your stories of life in the dorms all those years ago were funny and touching. It is obvious you had a profound and wonderful influence on so many young students.
I will keep you in my prayers. So, for you, Coach, I give a big GO TIGERS! GO COACH!
Cary Schwartz
Coach,
I am praying for you and your family during this time. I lost my grandfather to lung cancer last month. He was diagnosed 10 weeks earlier and lost his battle soon after. Coach, as you know, I live in OAKLAND, so I will do anything that you need during this time. I spoke to Win Morre the other day and he said you had taken a turn for the worse. I wish I had been able to spend more time with you during my stay at Memphis. I always looked up to you and wanted to tap into your knowledge. I always enjoyed your stories and warnings of the S.W.A.M.P. I have truly looked up to you and wish you peace during this time. Thanks so much Coach for the memories. As a manager, my main priority was taking care of the “kicking balls” and you taught me so much.
coach,
I was blessed to see you on the spring in the baseball field this year….i will always remember every morning you knock on my door, how you confuse me with a cuban refugee…..you always wanted to send me back to cuba in a boat…..remember that morning you pretended my car was getting stolen in the parking lot…i’m still having flash back every morning…you deposit a good seed in me….thank you and you are already blessed
It has been a long time since Robinson Hall but those years were the best of times. I will always remember that you had a word of encouragement for everyone. I will keep you in my prayers. May God Bless and Keep you.
Although we’ve only know each other for a relatively short time, it has been my pleasure. I really enjoyed the times I spent listening to your football stories at Highland Hundred meetings, as well as, sitting in the locker room waiting for high school all-star and Liberty bowl practices to be over.
One thing I can assure you, you have always put a smile on my face each time we crossed paths.
Thank you for everything you have done for the Tigers and everyone you have touched. Keep your chin up!
We’re praying for you,
Ed and Karen Sheeler
Dear Coach Armstrong: Years pass and memories fade…but you always remember imoirtant influences that have supported you in your life. As I made the transition from basketball to football, I will never forget how you encouraged me to “hang in there” and become a football player instead of a basketball player trying to play football. Well, 4 seasons of professional football and three championship rings later, I have been remiss in not reaching out and contacting you sooner.
The words are short, but the sincerity is genuine. I wish you well, and really could never thank you enough. I will keep you in my prayers as well.
Hey let coach know im pulling for him he’s a strong will person and i know he will pull through. I remember Coach A. riding his mule around the fields make sure they were in tip top shape! I also remember coach yell at Gotti on field goals that it took him to long to kick the ball or him screaming give them hell men! Oh he’s an awesome coach and just let him know that I love him and that i know hes going to pull through this cause he’s Coach A.
You have had a profound influence on my life. I learned not only a lot about football, but a lot about how to be a man. I am proud to have been on the “Number One Big Ass Team” in 1992. I think of and talk about you often. You are in my prayers.
I hate that you are having to go through these tough times. You have impacted so many peoples lives and that is a tribute to the person you are. Every former student-athlete I run into seems to always ask about you first. You are a loved person by the tiger family and I have always looked up to you for your dedication, loyalty, leadership, work ethic, etc, etc. If I can be half the person you are I would have led a successful life. I will be praying for you and your family during these tough times. By the way, I believe Deangelo scored 3 touchdowns for you this past week. We hope to see many more to come.
Sincerely,
Kenneth “Ziggy” Siegfried
Assistant AD for Development/ former student trainer 1999-2003
As a kid coming out of Illinois I was scared out of mind coming to Memphis State to walk on the football team. When I walked in the South Hall You were the first person I saw and I felt at ease. You made me feel welcome and I knew everything would be alright. I still remember everything from “Americas Team” to the Cowbell wake up calls during two-a-days!!! I am praying for you as I know all of the current and former Tigers are doing the same. Coach I will never forget you and how much your influence helped shape my life.
Alfred “J.J.” Hollis
Commissioner, Kankakee Valley Park District
Tiger Football 1989-1992
Coach A, I know if there is anybody that’s strong enough to beat this thing it’s you. You will be in my prayers & after you beat this thing, we’ll go hit a few golf balls on field 2, just kidding Coach. Get well soon!
“College time, college time….so get your BURR Rabbit notebook, your BURR Rabbit pencil and get to class”…..I think everyone that lived in SOUTH HALL has told stories of been awaken in the mornings by Coach A. You are a wonderful coach/man that has touched and influenced so many of young men. My prayers are with you!!!!!
All of the old housing people have asked me to send our thoughts and well wishes to you and Joan. The women up front miss your coming in the office and working your way through the system taking care of athletes. Although Joan may not miss dealing with “the new way” of housing, we miss her smile and her ability to work through issues and get things done. Please take care of yourself and make sure Joan is taking care of you as well. Our thoughts will be with you and the family Friday night at the game.
Sincerely,
Danny Armitage
Associate Dean of Students
I just wanted to thank the both of you for being the strong mother and father figure of the student- athletes of South Hall! Coach you have always been a person who would tell us what we needed and not what we wanted to hear. The world would be a better place if you had more Coach Armstrongs’. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Coach and Joan, I fondly remember my years at Memphis State and living in the dorm. Your help and ,kindness will never be forgotten.
Your presence on the field and your involvement in Tiger football is a credit to our alma mater.During, my infrequent trips to see the Tigers play, I could count on speakin with you as though the years that had passed were an illusion.Your booming voice and quick wit was always a welcome home to a place where the memories were always good.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,get well and again stand on the sidelines like you had done for so many years,encouraging
The Tigers
Ken Trocki
1971-74
Neither of us is young . . . heck, I remember that touchdown pass you caught for . . . well, the Vols. I was, I think, a 26 yarder. But mostly I remember all those times we have spent together here . . . when I would interfere with things in the old athletic dorm or on the football practice fields. By the way, have I ever thanked you for all those times you would haul me in that old golf cart from those practice fields back to my car? We have shared so many memories together for so, so many years. I saw you from a distance at the Rice game and tried to get your attention, but — as usual — you were plowing straight ahead and I was waiting to conduct an interview, so we didn’t make contact. But I’m sure you know how much you and the entire Armstrong family have meant to all those athletes that came under your “supervision” in the dorm. You always have been and you always will be an extra special person and you’ll be just fine because the man upstairs has a way of taking care of folks just like you.
You can’t know how much it means for you to be at Wilson Air (no matter what time of day or night) waiting on the plane to come back home from a football game. You’re always there for a hug…..win or loose! Your big old friendly hugs are always so peaceful. I also can never get the jump on you with the home game “Officials” tickets. You always have to call and remind me to get them done. You’re a very special man to me and to lots and lots of others in this world!
In all of my years of Memphis athletics, both as an athlete and as a coach, I can honestly say that you have had more impact on me than anyone else I have been in contact with. Rarely do people have the opportunity to meet and know someone of such passion, integrity, and resillence. I will never forget those mornings of you gently urging the occupants of South Hall to wake up and go to college!!! Okay, so maybe it wasn’t so gentle, and more than one trash can paid the ultimate price…
I look up to you in many ways. I hate to see such a great person have to struggle with such pain. I hope that you find peace, and know that in your great journey, you have touched more people than you can imagine.
You truely are an inspiration to myself, and countless others. My thoughts and prayers will be with you always!
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have had the honor and privilege of knowing the Armstrongs both as a student and as a member of the athletic department family. I have wonderful memories of the entire Armstrong family whether it be of Mrs. A’s morning walks with Dutch or Coach A waiting at the airport for the plane to arrive no matter the time. There are stories galore and there isn’t a week that goes by that Eddie Cantler and I don’t sit down and relive one of them
I only hope and pray that when my two little ones make the journey off to college that there are special people in their lives like Coach A and Mrs. A to watch over them and guide them down the paths of college time and number 2 pencils. If I can be half the parent to my little girls that you have been to Sterritt and Brence then I know they will turn out as wonderful individuals.
I know that I have shared many situations and stories with you and Mrs. A over the years and I treasure each and every memory. I have lived through numerous player incidents over the years that all seemed to put our program on the brink of disaster. But somehow we managed to get through each and every one and the athletic program continued to prosper and grow.
All of the “college-time” stories still continue to roll in from players of every sport and I realize how much you have meant to each and every person who has been involved with Tiger athletics.
I want you to know that without you, I would not be where I am today. I’m still not sure what you saw in an average second baseman from Roanoke, Virginia, when you came to Greenbrier Military Academy to recruit Joe Lynch and Bobby Huffman but I will be forever indebted to you for offering me a chance at Memphis State University.
You have taught us all how to fight the good fight and to battle to the very end. I will carry these life lessons forever.
Coach Murray “The K” Armstrong
Robison Hall was just a step away from Heydon Hall and you knew every inch of the way. You invested yourself in a bunch of young men who needed a strong hand to guide them. There are a lot of IOU’s left outstanding to you from all of us that will never be repaid. You and Miss Joan were a stable example for me and others like me. For somebody from Somerville, TN and a product of Alex Moore yourself, you understand the importance of mentoring young people and setting proper examples. Dad talked with Alex today and just so you know a lot of people are praying for you and your family. I’m glad to this day that medical school didn’t claim you and that you found you’re way to the Univ of Memphis. I’m sure Dr. Jack would be proud.
By the way, if memory serves me you had a pretty good tennis swing both on and off the court.
John Bomer
Football 67-70
Words cannot do justice for the feelings and respect I have for you and your family. Nor can they accurately describe the impact you have had on my life and development. The stories and experiences will never be forgotten. I have you to thank for either directly or indirectly for where I am today. Without your influence and impact that helped keep me motivated I would not of had a great collegiate experience including the football, the academic awards, a debt free education, and the foundation of a work ethic that paired with my solid education has allowed me to become a successful Nurse Anesthetist. Who knows where I would be without your stories, motivation and memories.
God Bless you Coach A and Mrs A. You both have had such a tremendous impact on my life. None of the Armstrongs will ever be forgotten. If there is anything that I can do for any of you, please dont hesitate. You will all be in my prayers.
Brence and Sterritt, thank you for this opportunity.
Mrs A, thank you for all your love, support and hospitality in the past.
Coach A, I love you and the amount of respect for you and your family will never be expressed with justice.
God Bless
Jimmy Keith
Go Tigers Go
Memphis Football 94-98
Coach I always looked forward to it when you came in to get a few bills paid you would always give us a good laugh about someone you had a crazy nick name for. When I worked the Baseball games you always took care of me to see if I needed anything. You was always at the gate I could count on you.
Keep your head up and be strong. I don’t know anyone that is stronger than you. You and your family are in my prayers.
Love Ya’ll
Susan Blackwell
Athletic Business Office
In the course of everyone’s life we all have the opportunity to know a handful of people who make a profound effect and impression on our lives, and on the type of person we become. These few special individuals shape and mold us long after we move on with our lives. Coach Armstrong, you were one of those special individuals for me and many other players.
You and Ms Armstrong were parents to all who lived in South Hall. You were not only a coach, but a teacher of life lessons and a maker of men. With your words and actions, you taught us leadership, determination, integrity, dedication, loyalty, and commitment.
It is amazing to think, how many young men you influenced in such a positive way during your time at Memphis.
I want to say thank you and your family for all you did for the students-athletes that came through South Hall. Thank you coach for being a positive influence in my life.
Dear Coach and Mrs. Coach
1971 seems like a lifetime ago and many years before that seems even longer, but as a “field house brat” growing up on campus, running the track, playing in the gym, literally living on campus every day, it was only natural that you both became my parents when I played football at Memphis State and you welcomed me into your dorm residence along with 80 other players and staff. You both, then and now, were a remarkable force in my life. One fond memory comes to mind about the “Jock dorm”… A bunch of us freshmen had been out on the town drinking at Uncle Sam’s on Madison…a guy with a gun came in and threatened us and we all booked it back to the dorm, one guy even ran all the way back. When we got back in our rooms and thought we were safe, here come the seniors, Stark and the others rousting us up out of our rooms and downstairs outside in the lobby near your apartment. It wasn’t long before you came out, I believe, in your pajamas or shorts and gave us hell about waking you and the family up. Needless to say, we obeyed your every command regardless and took it out on the field ourselves the next day with the seniors. Good advice Coach. We became more than just boys that day, we became men. We remained men because of what you and Mrs. Coach taught us through your examples!
My thoughts are with you all!
Thank you both also, for the enormous respect you always showed my dad.
Coach A-
Thank you for your dedication to so many stundet-athlete’s lives. Words can’t express what you have meant to me and the person I have become. Throughout an individual’s life, there are many people that will come and go. Some leave an impression, other’s fade quickly. You are one those people that make a difference in a person’s life. I hope and pray that duirng my lifetime I will be able to influence just one person’s life the way you have hundres of student-athletes.
Thank you for your courage, compassion, tough-love and wonderful life lessons. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
I hope that you take this time to look through all of these responses and know that you have touched so many people through the years. You are one of a kind and I am honored to have had the chance to spend time with you out on the practice field. I love the big bear hugs I would get and always smile when I think of you saying “Come here Sugar.” You were also always a welcome sight when we would come back from a road trip. I always knew I could count on you to help me out if I was ever in a bind. I can’t adequately express how much I appreciate you and care about you.
Coach A,
I remember your College Time, College Time as you opened my door. I was blessed to have you coach me on your JV team and to work for you and the kickers as a manager. My families prayers are for your pain to be eased, for your joy to increase with your family and I pray for your days to be long.
God Bless you and Mrs. A for your watchcare over a bunch of student atletes that needed you.
God Bless,
Gary “Calfman” Knight
Coach,
I am praying for you and my family and I understand what you are going through. I remember my time as Tiger. Even though I was not as talented as many of ther others I had so much heart. I loved playing for you and you taught about courage. I took those lessons into the United States Navy and it has gotten me through. Get well coach, you have alot more young men to coach!
Good Bless,
Along with many other Irish soccer players, I will never forget the advice about avoiding the swamp, and the many times you kept me and the rest of the lads in line around south campus!!
Coach,
I will never forget those days in Robinson Hall. Not only did you recruit me you made sure that year one (1) my room was positioned right over yours. What a better way to see what trouble I did, or did not get myself into. I will always remember your wit, smile and most important your support and the opportunity that you provided to me. I can still hear you calling me “ROBERT F” today and have told my children a lot about you. You have always been an encourager, motivator and a fighter. Keep fighting and smiling and work on your technique.
I have not seen you in several years. I recall so vividly you and your family taking care of me when I was a manager during the 1970′s. You made such a tremendous impact on me and so many other people over the years. You may recall I was elected Sheriff of Tipton County and served for 17 years in that capacity. The impact you had on me during my years at Memphis State allowed me to better serve the citizens during my years in politics. THANK YOU! for the life you dedicated to working with young people and the positive influence you had on so many people. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. May God bless you!
Many of the memories I have of working in the Athletic Department during the 90′s revolve around you. You always had a good word and taught me the ever important “rowboat theory.” A theory that still holds true today as all of us are “rowing” for you. You are an ispiration to all you have touched throughout the years. My prayers are with you and family.
You don’t know me but my husband, Ron Higdon,and my son, Rodney Higdon, played football for you. I just want to tell you that they both spoke highly of you. My dear husband went to be with our Lord August 29, 2007. He and his best buddy, Harry Day, are up in Heaven telling the same old football stories that they told down here many times. I just wanted you to know that I will be praying for you and your family during this time. Just lean on the Lord and he will give you comfort.
Coach Armstrong, I wish you and you family the very best. I know you want remember me but I remember you very well. In 1962 and 1963 you and Coach French were the 2 best coaches that I have ever had. You would kick butt when we were wrong but you would also give praise when due. You are a good coach but most of all a great person.
Coach Armstrong, During my years at the university and then in the Highland Hundred I always looked looked forward to our senior banquet. The best part of the evening is when you told a true and always humorous,and embaraasing moment about each senior. I will never forget the looks on the boys faces when telling the story in your gruff and sometimes adults only content. The devotion you and your wife showed when you ran the dorm and then in coaching and other endeavors make you a living legend in University of Memphis Athletics.
I’m looking forward to seeing you back on the football practice fields,making sure everything in going smoothly and keeping pesky TV anchors from hitting golf balls on your beloved turf.
Good luck coach,
Coach, When I came to Memphis I knew very few people, hardly anyone. You and your family made the athletic dorm a safe and warm place. It was more than just a dorm. You are a man of integrity, intelligence and love. When I think about the University of Memphis and the football team your name is the one I, and many others, think about first. You led with a strong and steady, although sometimes firm, hand. You showed up ready to work each day, expected no recognition and were a positive presence. You may have not sought recognition but you were noticed. Your life has inspired many, and I am one of them. May God Bless you and your family.
Coach Armstrong, when I think back to my playing days you always come to mind. I still remember those days in the “valley” when as freshmen we had scrimmage against the varsity since there was no redshirt players. When we went to play our only freshmen game we had no plays or defense so you use the plays/defense of the last team the varsity played. I think we got beat by 30 points. No flying to the game, we drove by bus for 10 hours! Remember when we stopped for gas and you said we could spend $1.00. We cleaned out that little store and spent all our travel money. You had to call the school and have them wire money. After we lost you told us we could not go out but we did and all got drunk. When I got married in my junior year you found a home for me and my wife at Vet’s village. You were a leader, coach and friend to all of us. God bless you and keep you safe. When I go to church today you will be in my prayers. Tom Wallace
Coach and Mrs. A you took us all in to the dorm, looked out for us and treated us like family. I can never thank you enough for what you taught me. You are in our thoughts and our prayers. Coach was a great football coach as well as a great man off the field. I feel that im a better person for having known him. If theres anything you ever need dont hesitate to ask.
First let me say THANK YOU; who better on this planet to have been placed in the lives of so many people over such a long time? God has great plans and He proves that by giving us leaders such as you and by letting so many share your wonderful family.
I can’t even begin to expound on my memories of you at Memphis State and from what I can see on this WEB site, there are many like me. You are solely responsible for making men out of boys and for keeping each of us in your book of names. Now it’s our turn to keep you in our hearts and prayers. I know it’s not a fair exchange because you gave us much more than we can ever give back but we can try to “pass it forward”.
I will loose many memories over the years; season records will fade, names of teammates will become harder to recall, even the smell of wet Memphis grass before a morning practice will go away but be assured you and Joan are joyfully emblazoned on my mind forever. I will end this as I started, thank you.
Murray, Coach A, Mentor,
Thanks for showing me what a real coach is all about. There is an old saying in coaching, “I don’t care how much you know, until I know how much you care!” I didn’t deserve a family like You and Joan when I left Huntsville, AL to play football for Memphis State. Of all the times that you chased me to class and kept me out of trouble, I’ll never forget the night You and Joan came and got off the street after a frantic Kyle Hillard came and got yall after I had been hit by a car on Normal street. That night was indicative of how you and Joan and your family has always served the players that were fortunate to play at Memphis State when there was an athletic dorm. I’ve never been around a man that is as mentally tough yet more caring about the University of Memphis and the athletes that played there. There is a multitude of men out there that can say, I’m a better man because of Murray Armstrong, I’m one of many! I love you, Murray.
Keith Butler
It was a great honor and privilege for my late husband Ray Daniels, to have had the opportunity to know you, and to know first hand what your life has meant to the TIGERS.
Thank you for the memories and stories that will be recalled in the future by the many fortunate enough to be touched by your life.
Your family has had such a positive influence on so many young men, and I would like to say, “Thank You” from the bottom of my heart, for allowing our family to have been part of something so special.
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Coach Armstrong,
I recently ran into Sterrit at the Memphis airport and he gave me an update on what your going through. I speak for all in the MUS family when I say that we are thinking of you and have always appreciated your friendship down through the years. Please know that you have always a part of our success – your knowledge of football is amazing.
I always loved introducing you as the Coach of the 1965 Freshman National Champs. You, Coach Sam Carter, and Coach Billy Ray Farmer were the glue that kept our team together and most of all kept us in school. We were the first and maybe only undefeated freshman team that the Tigers ever had. We can thank you for that! You gave us the will to win and taught us how to win. You also taught us how to be gentlemen .
I can still see you standing on the front steps of Robison Hall when I first reported to MSU. You shook my hand, my father and brothers’ hands and hugged my mother. You told them to not worry about me . You were the Head Freshman Coach and you would take care of me. I’ll never forget that moment. Until then, I was one nervous eighteen year old. Coach Armstrong, you took care of a lot us Tigers. I want to thank you for all us !
I love ya!
I will always remember the warm welcomes I received at the baseball field the past two years. I always knew that Will could count on your help if he needed anything and that you would be there to keep him in line. I have enjoyed reading all of the wonderful stories and can only say it is amazing how one man and his family has touched so many lives.
There are no words strong enough to say exactly what I feel or describe the impact that you had on my life during the time I spent at Memphis State University/University of Memphis as an athletic trainer. When I moved into South Hall in 1988, you and Mrs. Joan welcomed me and treated me like family and became surrogate parents. You always made sure I was behaving and going to class and Mrs. Joan always made sure that I got something to eat and was always there to sew a button on my shirt if needed.
I swear, I still wake up and hear those words “College Time College Time, Frazier get your ass out of bed and get to class.”
Everyone of us that ever lived in South Hall or came in contact with you have stories to tell, stories that molded us and made us who we are, stories that taught us something about life or stories that just made us laugh and not take ourselves too seriously.
I will never forget the time you came into the training room during the spring and it was full of baseball players and you just stood there for what seemed like 5 minutes, shaking your head. Then you looked at Brad Seitzer and said, “Damn Seitzer, what the hell is going on, baseball is the only sport you have to get out of shape to play! All you have to do his pitch and catch!” I couldn’t quit laughing.
There are so many things that through my relationship with you that I learned and try daily to share with my family and our staff here at the hospital. Leadership, Strength and Integrity are definitely the big ones.
Please know that I count you in the short list of men that had a dramatic influence on my life.
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER GIVE UP!!!
Butch Frazier
CEO
Acadian Medical Center
Eunice, Louisiana
337-580-7506
Coach Armstrong,
You were always the steadying influence whether it be in the dorm, locker room, academics or on the field. You kept things fun but in perspective.
When I was a red shirt you always encouraged me; work hard and next year you will start. You were right. Along with Jerry Todd, David Berrong, we had one of the best defensive backfields in the country. As you used to say, after 5 years out of school everyone is an All-American.
Thank you for your guidance and the lessons you taught us. As I look around on my former teammates you made all of us better players and people.
I will be putting a story on your story blog but I just wanted to say that ever since I learned of Murray’s illness from Joyce, Spooks secretary, I have been praying for all of you. Murray has been a big influence on my life and I hope he knows that I am so proud of him and how he has Positively influenced so many people at Memphis and all of Tennessee. My love to each of you.
I have never forgotten my time at Memphis State and that is because of you. You and Mrs. A taught me more about life than anyone will ever know and it is hard to express in this message how much the Armstrong family mean to me because for a short period of time I felt like I was a part of that family myself. I will never forget the Christmas I was allowed to stay in the dorm by myself to help with the Liberty Bowl. I woke up Christmas morning to find a small gift outside my door. I remember a lot of Christmases with family and friend over the years but I will never forget that one.
I still tell the stories of “College Time” to the high school athletes I work with today along with many other lessons learned during my four years (3 in the dorm) under Coach A. Respect, accountability, determination, laughter, and kindness.
I am praying and thinking of you and hope this message finds it’s way to you. If you want to feel jolly you can just “fire” me one more time for old times sake.
It was great to see you the other night at the Hall of Fame Banquet and Congratulations on your award. I count myself fortunate to have known you and you have had a great impact on so many. Thanks to you and Mrs. A we stayed out of “The Swamp” at least most of the time and thank you for your influence on me and so many others. I can truly tell you sometimes when faced with a decision or challenge most people think back to someone they admire or respect. I can still hear the wake up “Whistle Blowing” down the floor of South Hall. We all become coaches of some kind later in life, I now have children and I can tell you I am a better coach to them and others because of a truly great coach, YOU. Alright Babe! I will leave you with this,
I remember a quote you told us one time that pops up in my mind sometimes, I thought it would make you smile that I could remember something.
“Success is Failure turned inside out, So, stick to the Fight when you are Hardest Hit, because it is then when things get tough that you must not Quit!”
You and your family are in our thoughts and Prayers
Thank you for all that you have given to each of us during your time at South Hall. You and your family have been a blessing in many, many ways. Keep on fighting on but when your time does come please say Hello to my dad for me. May your spirits be high and your days be peaceful no matter what you face in the remainder of this life. May God continue to Bless in ways only He can imagine.
Just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate who you are and the position you held as a teacher to us. It’s not easy teaching men by talking, but one thing all men respect is one who leads by example. You are that individual and I am blessed to have had you look over me while I was in Memphis. The stories that I have read are all to true and make me smile and reflect on those special days. Coach you have changed so many lives that I know you may never realize how many, but I hope reading these letters brings back the same fond memories for you as it has for us all. You are a real legacy that really made a difference. I will pray tonight for you that God would comfort and heal you in this time if it be “HIS” will and also Thank “HIM” for allowing someone so special and impactful as you Coach Armstrong to be in my life and so many others. We need more special people in this world like you Coach A. Thank you for who you are and all you have impacted!
It was good to see you at the banguet. I have seen a lot of notes from guys I know and that was great.
You and Joan are very special people. Coach you are like the really great teacher that you liked but did not fully appreciate the things he taught until later when you “grew up”. There is a special place reserved for you and Joan by the man upstairs for the countless lives you have touched and the way you touched them. I am a better, much better man for having come under your direction not only while in college but up until and including today. I love you both and I am as proud of the boys as you are. Heck I felt like I grew up with them!!
Coach Murray – So sorry to hear of your illness. I know you met many parents through your years at Memphis State but none can be any more grateful than Gene and I. I remember our many visits to South Hall over the five years. You and your lovely wife were so gracious and we felt the tough love you showered on the guys. Tony would share many stories with us and we laughed together over the morning routines etc. You nurtured, encouraged, loved and disciplined our son like he was your own. (I know you treated the others the same). Tony, as he talked about you, would reveal his respect for you. I’m so glad he got to see you on his last trip to Memphis. You will live in his heart forever.
Gratefully,
Jan & Gene Semple
I have many fond memories of life in the dorm and you coming to wake me up every morning for “College Time!” I remember one morning, however when you did not want me to go to college! I could not believe it! You asked if I wanted to be on a TV show as an football player extra with some of the players for a show called “The Mississippi.” What fun skipping class to be on TV! Most of my memories of you Coach were of you handing us “sorry kickers” the “chart” everday in practice to go kick our legs off! Thanks for pushing me to be the best! I appreciate your influence on my life during those four years! Know that I am praying for you! Jesus loves you, Coach!
My prayers and thoughts are with you. I can say that you are “my coach and my friend”. From the first time you pick me up by making me a milkshake to keep my weight up after I caught the flu my first week of practice to the day I left Memphis State to take on my role with Coca Cola you have encourage me to keep on moving forward. I was blessed to be able to play for you and coach with you. You made me laugh, cry, picked me up when I was down and kicked me in my backside when I needed to get going. I watched you get excited when we won and agonize when we lost. You taught me to work hard and long to overcome. No one put more in the men of Memphis State than you did.
You and Mrs. Joan were my parents away from home and I love you for your sacrifice. Sterrit and Brent just had to give way to a lot of big brothers.
The most important lesson you taught me was to keep my faith. That is what has gotten me through and your source of strength and peace. I wish you and your family blessings and peace. I will always have you in my thoughts but most of all share our memories with my son. I added a couple of stories. It is only just since you gave me my nickname my senior year.
Love and God’s peace
Steve, Toni, Hannah and Adam King
Sorry Brence, I mispelled your name. You will have to forgive an old football player who went out there without his helmet too many times. What you don’t know if I babysat for you mom and dad at times and many times had to break you and your brother up so you would not get in trouble. If did give me a chance to add to what I said earlier.
Your family is very special to me and I appreciate being a part of it.
Mrs. Joan – thank you for the sacrifice you made which allowed Coach Armstrong to make an impact on us all.
While the moment (1975-1978) was temporary, the memories will last forever. We had the priviledge of serving the University together during this brief period on life’s journey’s. Let’s never forget the times we were peeking at the mountain top of success. God gave us the opportunity to work with some of the universities best student-athletes who provided some of the biggest wins in the history of the University, but neither will we ever forget that dreadful walk from the football office on Sunday night, nor the drive from the Athletic Complex on Monday afternoon during the week of one of the University’s biggest opportunities. At this moment on the Universities journey, we were truly, “ROLLING ON THE RIVER, but the river suddlenly reversed direction and our 7-3 Bowl bound team saw the tangerines drifting out of reach on a flooded field at Southern Mississippi. Several on the coaching staff have gone on to other successful opportunities, even a few to the point of earning the RING. While most, if not all, of the student-athletes of the era are rocks of success in their chosen endeavors. There are enough stories from those four years alone, to create a number one, “BEST SELLER”, even if there were some, who thought there were more off the field, than on the field stories. The best I can remember, you have always enjoyed history. History reflects that those four years produced enough wins that it took serval staffs and many years of competing to equal/exceed the level of accomplishment of those student-athletes. Murray, you and I know life is too short for yesterdays, it moves along to fast. The enjoyment of living is not where we have been, it’s looking ever forward, to another year and ten. Your career is a long and distinguished one and as the Lord said to the servant to whom he had given the five talents (MATTHEW 25:21)…Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things. We share many fond thoughts, saying’s and memories from that era, but one that stills rings in my ears is: HEADS, HEADS, KEEP YOUR HEAD UP! May GOD bless you and heal you and wrap a protective arm of love around the Armstrong family. The Donaldson’s, Charlie, Rosemary & family.
Coach Armstrong,
Thank you so very much for all the wonderful things that you did for me while I was a walk-on football player for the 83-84 seasons. You treated the walk-ons with the same respect, compassion and toughness as the scholarship players. On two separate occasions, myself and Clarke Wright were promised to be able to dress out for 2 home games. Coach Dempsey, chose to let other northern players dress out instead of Clarke and myself. You were not going to have any of that. You took care of the situation and the two of us dressed out. If it hadn’t been for you, we would have never dressed out a single game. You also wrote a great letter for me to enter into the US Navy as a pilot. I wound up serving 9 years as a naval officer first and a pilot second. I learned from you what it is like to be a great leader. The most important thing that I learned from you was how to take care of people.
Coach A. You are a great man and I will be praying for you, Joan and the boys.
Coach Armstrong we are definetly praying for a speedy recovery. We hope that all is well with your family. We know that you’re in GOOD hands with the LORD, Mrs. Armstrong along with the boys and the Tiger nation by your side!!! Kyle Morris wanted me tyo say hello. (The QB from Florida) He’s still trying to chase me down!!! Thanks for all of the good memories over the years. And a special thanks to you and Mrs. Armstrong for being there for all of us during our time at South Hall!! May GOD continue to smile on you and your family!!!
Coach Armstrong, I can never repay all that you have done for me and my family. I have always had a place in my heart for you for the kindness you have always shown me, and will never be forgotten. God has a special place in haven for you Coach. Al told me some time back that the two people that had the most influence in his life was you and myself. I am so humbled to be with you in the Al’s special thoughts. The Bloodworth’s are a much better family, just by knowing you, than we could ever wish for. Our thoughts and prays are with you my friend. Hug Joan for us. Love you Coach A
I would just like to add my thanks to you for all that you have done for our University. It is always awe inspiring to read of how something that starts out as a simple “job” has turned into a life that has touched so many lives in a positive way when you step back and look at it. God does place us where he wants us to be.
I too like so many others have been influenced by your kindness, dedication and guidence that you so willingly gave to everyone you touched. You were always there for anything that anyone needed, your door was always open. There are some many great stories that surround you career at Memphis State and when the former players reminiscence yours are always the best and most remembered. As a freshman, I was told that you don’t want to play tennis with Coach A because he’ll be striking your butt instead of a ball if you miss curfew! Your booming voice calling the special teams to gather during a game will never be replaced. We miss seeing you make your way to your stadium seats on the 50 yard line before and at half time!
Coach, you are loved and respected by some many many people and the University has had many Head Coaches over the years, but I know that I share the same feelings as so many other players in saying that YOU have ALWAYS been OUR COACH! My God bless you and your family our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Thanks for always being there and supporting me throughout the years. First as a kid running the campus just like Sterritt and Brence, then as a father figure that I needed during my “official student” time there at Memphis State. My first official “college time” wake up call is something I will always remember. I can still hear the keys and doors slamming coming down the hall. We all learned a ton from you and are better from having you touch our lives.
You know the campus was like home for me, and you sure helped me know that either as a student or visiting, it is home. And thanks for all of your support and friendship for my dad over the years as you both managed through all of the changes. You are an institution and are the Memphis State memory that all of us fondly recall as we think about our time there.
And Mrs. A, any of us that did spend time in the dorm know who was equally in charge and who we could turn to when we needed something. Thanks for all you did and all that you continue to do.
And Sterritt and Brence, thanks for this site. Whenever I am back in Memphis I will try to look you up and recall our unique time as Campus Kids running around and bugging many of athletes and previous posters on this site. And we alone were probably responsible for a large percentage of the athletic tape usage as I am sure you were taped from head to toe and left at your apartment door many times like me.
Take care and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Matt “Little Doc” Smith
or Mattis Manningly to Coach
Thank you for your dedication to the U of M for all these years. In 1972 as an incoming freshman to have you say, I will take care of you, your one of my West Tennessee Boys, I knew I had nothing to fear. Thanks for everything.
Tom Barton
First, let me say that both you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. While there are already plenty of reasons to admire you, your toughness and unbreakable spirit in the face of adversity emphasizes even more why so many people have looked up to you over the years. The lessons and words of advice that I received from you still stick with me to this day. When I came to Memphis as a walk-on, sitting at the bottom of the QB depth chart, you constantly kept me motivated. You were one of a very small group that truly believed I’d make it as a QB at Memphis. I will always remember you telling me that I was a football player and that I did belong there, even when it appeared I may never get a chance to play. You have no idea how much those words meant when I was struggling to find confidence in my first couple years at Memphis. Your lessons went beyond the field. I remember you stressing to get my master’s degree, and now I am in the process of doing just that at Georgia Tech. So much that I learned from you at the U of M helped me succeed in football and in the classroom.. but more importantly, they have helped me succeed in life. I wish you nothing but the best, and hope you continue to be blessed.
Winston Churchill once addressed a group of college graduates and simply stated these words “NEVER GIVE UP,” “NEVER GIVE UP” and simply walked off the stage. Coach, you taught us how to persevere and move forward in spite of our circumstances. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t reflect upon my time at Memphis and the lessons that were learned – especially the value of an education.
Dear Coach Armstrong,
I just wanted to let you know how much you and your family has meant to me since I met you in 1982 as a transfer from UT Knoxville. You welcomed me into your South Hall home and always treated me like your son. Sometimes, that involved tough love as you “motivated” us out of bed and into the classroom or onto the football field. The lessons you taught me during that time still inspire me in both practicing law and raising my own family. We shared the best of times by finally having a winning season as well as the worst of times when we lost Coach Dockery and others in the plane crash. You have truly touched hundreds of lives in a positive way and for that we are grateful. Many thanks for the hundreds of milk shakes Mrs. A made for me when I had Mononucleosis and couldn’t eat. I still feel bad about parking my motorcycle inside the dorm and getting you in trouble with the firemarshall. This summer, I played golf with Mike Omar, John Bowers and Stan Weaver and we laughed until we cried telling “Murray” stories. I hope you know that if there is anything you or your family ever needs, please let me know.
The only contact I had with you was at a football camp I attended at U of M back in the mid 90′s. You were on the practice fields and I was trying to learn to long snap and you seemed to get a kick out of the fact I was pretty bad at it…you did however give me a few pointers that helped me at least make it through camp.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Living in South Hall was one of the best experiences I’ve had. You and Mrs. A when out of your way to make it as homey as possible. One of my favorite memories has to be when Perez, Wiley, and I got arrested for streaking across campus in the fall of ’91. I remember we were naked, with hands cuffed behind our backs sitting there when out of nowhere you busted through the door. The three of us were scared sh*** at the thought of you coming to pick us up, but as it turned out, you couldn’t have made it any easier for us. I wish you and the family the best and will keep you in my prayers.
Coach Armstrong and Mrs. Joan and the boys ARE what made and makes the U of M special- not just another school. Our family has always loved and
admired you all. My father, Dr. R.E. Gene Smith always has and always will
love you all as do all of us. I know personally that it is true that the Armstrong’s raised 1000s of young men and no one could have done it better! Let me take this time to thank coach and Mrs. Joan for letting me
ride along for a few years and really the U of M was home to us all- thanks
to coach for the field passes all those years and letting me jump on the bus
for practice and games at the stadium- I’ll never forget any of you and god bless coach Armstrong.
Your friend always,
Danny Smith
Coach,
I worked as a student assistant in the Athletic Business office. You always treated me with the same respect and love that you did the athletes. I appreciated that very much. I also admired the consistent and solid work ethic that you demonstrated with every task you took on. Mrs. Armstrong has always been so sweet and loving as well. I am praying for both of you. “Big Time College Football” will never be the same.
Thank you for the kindness and consideration you have shown to our family especially two little girls who care nothing for football. You have been a great example to all of us about a good attitude and perseverence. We are so greatful to know you through our relationship with the U of M. Eventhough both of our girls never knew their grandfathers, you are the man they picture their grandpa would be like. We are praying for you.
I was so sorry to hear of your illness and will be praying for you and your family. You and Mrs. Armstrong were so kind to me and helped me when I started as an academic counselor for student-athletes at MSU in 1992. I remember eating dinner with you at South Hall before my late nights at Study Table and enjoying your humor and wisdom. Thank you for caring about so many people. I hope you sense how many people care about you.
How can I ever tell you how much the years I worked at South Hall for you and Joan meant to me? I was a long way from home and family so your family became my family as well.
I’m not sure you ever called me by my actual name. After all the years with Tina Smyth having worked for Joan, you started out calling me Tina instead and eventually you just shorted it to “T”…many mornings the first voice I heard as I walked in the door for the breakfast shift at the meal list was your deep gravelly greeting, “Mornin’ T!” as you passed me on your way up the stairs and began the morning routine “College Time, College Time, Get your college rule paper and your number two pencils its time to Go to College!” or some similar variation and when you arrived home in the afternoon the first thing you asked me was usually “Where’s Moose?”
Sterritt was away at the academy then so I didn’t ever get to know him nearly as well as I did Brence. Brence was the little brother I never had. I will never forget how he would come barreling through the door after school, drop his books and plop down in front of me and demand “Back Attack!” that was my cue to stop whatever I was doing and scratch his back. I tormented him like a big sister too. Particularly when “Aaa-mee called” (Hopefully he’ll laugh when he reads that.)
I was as at home in the apartment at South Hall as I was in my parent’s house and I will be forever grateful for the way you welcomed me into your family and the way you watched over me once I was there. I always knew where I stood with you. When I did well you showed your appreciation. When I screwed up you still had my back. Leaving South Hall when I graduated was as hard as leaving home for College had been.
Harold and I are praying for all of you as you battle this thing. We love you all very much and hopefully we can see you in person soon. It has been far too long.
You always thought of us as men. Regardless of what happens, know that you leave behind 46 years of men that will remember you for generations to come.
From College Time to the Swamp, you’ve instilled wisdom in thousands of young men, including myself. And that will forever endure.
Hey Coach,
My prayers and thoughts for you, Joan and the boys! I will always remember our freshman bus trip to S. Illinois. It had been a long bus ride and we all were so hungry and you said,”I am so hungry I could eat the bottom of a rag doll”.
You and Joan were so special to the athletes while playing and after graduation. Braxton will always remember those days at the dorm playing with your son Brince. Thank you so much for all that you have done for thousands of athletes! We love you coach.
Dale Brady
Coach Armstrong,
This is Reggie Miller’s wife, Kristen. Reggie looks up to you so much and cares about you like you wouldn’t believe. He talks about you all of the time and how good of a man you are and so strong. He always talks about how much you love your job and the people around you. We are thinking and praying for you EVERYDAY! If you need anything at all you know he is there to help you.
Dear Freshman Footballer,
In just a few short weeks you will be a part of the sweep and excitement of the most exciting sport on the American Scene today, Collegiate Football. Collegiate Football, the sport that is the healthiest adjunct to shaping the “whole man” that is the goal of a Liberal Education. Collegiate Football, a sport whose signifiance is that it is a dynamic encounter with another and one’s self that is real, concrete,naked and out in the open for all to witness.
Let me introduce myself to you. I am Coach Murray Armstrong a graduate of the University of Tennessee in Knoxville. I am your Freshman Coach. My job is to give you a smooth initiation into the college classroom and onto the playing field. Ahead of you lies the finest years of your life. I am going to try and make them as comfortable and enjoyable for you as possible.
I would like for you to start running some every day. Your leg muscles need to be in condition when you arrive. Your freshman schedule includes three freshman games that will be played in Memphis. At present we are trying to schedule a fourth. The University of Miami.
You will be hearing from me every week until the beginning of football practice September 1, 1965.
Looking forward to seeing you,
I am
Sincerely Yours
Coach Armstrong
Memphis State Univ.
Coach, I came across in this when my mom passed away in 1987, from all the notes, testimonials and tokens of appreciation, it is more than obvious It was a job very well done.
Thanks from the boys of Robinson Hall
Our continued love and prayers,
Clyde and Charlotte Israel
“Captain” of the Freshman National Champions 1965 (your appointment)
surely not one I earned.
Coach Armstrong
I wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers, as well as my church’s prayer list. I trully feel that you made a huge difference in my life as well as every athlete that lived in South Hall. I have a story or two to tell on the blog page.
Memphis State (as I know it) has been blessed by your presence and AUTHORITY. Tell the boys hello and give Miss Joan a hug from me.
I do miss the morning wake up “College Time”.
Thanks for your care and God Bless you all.
Coach and Mrs. A
Thank you for taking me in and making me feel like a part of your family. I was a trainer and also worked at South Hall for Mrs. A. I admire the way you, Coach, treated everybody with respect. You treated the managers and trainers with the same respect as the starters. I loved the sayings on your door. My favorite “Your actions speak so loud I can’t hear a word you say.” I use that saying with my own players and students today. Mrs. A., I can’t thank you enough for always being there for me, especially when the ice storm came and I had no place to go. I’m praying for you,Coach, Mrs. A, Sterritt, and Brence.
Coach…you are the man….I met you when I was just a ticket writer here at the University some 25 years ago. I would patrol by SouthHall and you would say to me in your deep southern voice “Suga if they are parked wrong, go ahead and give them a ticket” he was talking about the athletes that would park all around Normal street in violation of parking rules. Just that phrase from him “Suga” made me feel special…. Coach I loved you then and I love you now….Best Wishes to you and your family….
Reba
Coach Armstrong,
Just was reading the paper and saw your story.. Have been a fan of memphis state since my early days growing up in ne mississippi. As a high school coach, i hope i have and will touch just a part of the many lives you have when i am done.. Sounds like you did it the way it was supposed to be done. Hope you feel better and the tigers make it to a bowl and calipari can win a few games!!! My prayers are with you. Todd Hutchinson, Boys Basketball Coach, Grenada High School..
When we are not able to see wonderful people it is nice to have the wonderful memories.
My thoughts and Skeeter’s (I feel I can speak for him) echo the voices above. As I read through them the one thing I see missing of which he always spoke was how smart you are. You know football and you know people. Your magical touch makes people want to be better just being around you.
I don’t know if Spook ever told you this but when I was pregnant with mine and Skeeter’s first child Spook wanted me to stay in the football dorn when the team traveled out of town. He felt like Skeeter would play better knowing the Armstrongs were taking care of me. I appreciated the thought but just could not picture myself pregnant in the football dorm. We settled on a plan where Mrs. Murphy would call me before half time so she could report to Spook who would pass the info along to Skeeter.
I have fond memories of hanging in the lobby after games with you all, Al Harvey, Joe Lynch, Palmer Smith, John Allen, Steve DeLong, Charlie Babb, John Kirchner, John Bomar, Buddy Mauer, Carey Mulwee , Dave Pawlick, Ray Jamison and Larry Shelley. It was such a safe place and a fun place.
You two, as a team, created a very unique life for yourselves. Thank you both for allowing so many of us to become part of your family. It was a gift we will all treasure.
I will keep the entire Armstong family in my prayers. Enjoy the pretty weather. This is your season.
I was so sorry to hear of your illness. You were always a positive influence on me and it was my privilege to play under you. Your references to tennis always made the technique clear, and your devotion to the payers always provided perspective. I hope and prey you are well and comfortable.
Your friend and fan,
Jonathan Cirtain
You all are in our prayers…You and I go back longer than anyone on this site….Pre-K it think…Birthday parties before than. Other than the fact you are male you would probably been in the Awful Eight at FCHS. You and your buddies far surpassed us in trouble (not caught). Once we all left college our lives took different directions. Yours has meant so much to so many…Not many can say that. I have read the posts and you both have truly left your mark on many young lives. Enjoy the grandchild. They are very very special.
Everyone is truly blessed to have come under the direction of the Great Booming Voice of “The Dorm Daddy”.
It didn’t matter to you that i was a walk-on. I was your “Running Back” on the Freshman team.
When i later earned a scholarship as a DB, you were still the same.
That’s the “Unique” thing about you. You shoot straight, tell the truth -whether we wanted to hear it, or not- and you ALWAYS had our best at heart.
It would be cool if my Son, who’ll be a Tiger Soccer Player next year, could have you walk into his room EARLY in the morning with those Immortal Words, “College Time, Off Yo Ass and On Yo Feet! Time to get some Knowledge!”
I’m sure he would “enjoy” that after hearing me tell stories of my years at the U of M in South Hall.
You used to call me Jawvus the Pawvus. While i had no idea what a “Pawvus” was, it didn’t matter, because at least you cared enough about me to give me a nickname!
The term, “Dorm Daddy” is perfect for you. You clearly were The Man of the House. You and Mrs. Armstrong took care of us all and expected us to behave like men, or soon grow to be men.
Whether we did or not, you were still there, just like a true Man. A true Father!
Keep ridin’ that Cart, Coach Armstrong!
Jawvus the Pawvus is Pulling for YOU!
God Bless you and your Family!
I am so sorry for your loss. Coach Armstrong was one of the greatest men that I have ever known. He had a tremendous impact on my life and he will be greatly missed. You all are in my prayers.
I am deeply saddened by your loss. And “our loss”. Coach Murray Armstrong was one of my most influential mentors of my life. A small piece of a great man will live in me forever, just by having known and loved him, and by being loved “by” him, for he loved all of his boys. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief.
Please allow me to share a prayer with you from the Episcopal book of Common Prayer.
“Into your hands, O merciful savior, we commend your servant Murray. Acknowledge, we humbly beseech you, a sheep of your own fold, a lamb of your own flock, a sinner of your own redeeming. Receive him into the arms of your mercy, into the blessed rest of everlasting peace, and into the glorious company of the saints in light. Amen.”
“May his soul and the souls of all the departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen”
My thoughts and prayers are with in the loss of your wonderful husband and father and our great friend. There is a large hole in your hearts right now and I hope warm memories and the well wishes of friends will help heal that wound.
The world has lost one our greatest people. Coach Armstrong truly made a difference on this earth with all people that he influenced in a positive manner. You are in all of our thoughts and prayers.
With Love,
Jeff, Julia, Lindsey, Craig And Patrick Eldred
When my brother and I returned to Memphis in the spring of 1992 after losing our father, Coach Armstrong was the first face we saw. He showed a deep concern for us and our family. He knew our dad was a high school principal and he had played against my dad in college (UT vs. FSU 1958). He told me and my brother that our dad was a great man because he served others. Likewise, I want the two of you to know from me, your father was a great man because he served others and he will be first in the kingdom of heaven. Thank you for sharing him with me and so many others like me. I pray that the Lord gives you peace and understanding during this time of trial. Mrs. A., thank you for including me and so many others as a part of your family. My heart is with you all and I mourn with you in your time… our time of loss.
I was so saddened when I heard on the news about Murry. I will always remember Richard’s and my time at Memphis State with all of you. I still love all of you, and will remember you in my prayers. I know that Richard and Murry are having a good visit in Heaven.
To the Armstrong family, and to all who knew and loved Coach Armstrong:
I would like to be remembered the way Murray Armstrong will be remembered. A man who lived passionately, who loved unconditionally, and worked tirelessly in what he believed.
The class of 55 has lost a special member. You all are in our prayers. Murray touched so many young lives in athletics and made such a difference in what they became once that part of their lives was over. Many of us in the class of 55 have so many fond memories of Murray and those will stay with us. He was a true Volunteer.
Although we have lost a true giant of a man heaven has gained what we have lost. Although my first experience with Coach A was a scary one, he turned out to be one of my closest friends while working in athletics. The morning after my first game filming and editing a 1989 football game I received a voicemail from Coach A saying “Copley if I could find you right now I’d kill you. Where is my VCR”. You see I swapped his VCR for another one and he didn’t like that. But what started out rocky ended up being a man I looked up to tremendously. Everyone has there favorite saying by Coach but mine has to be “Whatever is NO!” I also loved hearing from the sidelines during the games Coach A hollering kicking team get ready even though it was only 2nd down. Coach A took pride in his kickers and snappers and truly cared for them. Not only has the U of M lost a ICON but so has the world of sports. Mrs A I know Coach loved you with all his heart. Sterritt when you went West Point your dad could not have been prouder, and Brence I know how much your dad loved having you as a part of his beloved kicking team. Mrs A, Sterritt, and Brence my prayer for you is that Christ Jesus will grant you a peace that passes all understanding.
In Christ
Mark “Coolidge” Copley
Video Coordinator 1989-1994
I was very sorry to hear of Murray’s passing. I used to play tennis with Coach Armstrong some 25 years ago. I have read all of the caring comments above. What a wonderful legacy to a good man.
In October, when I wrote a note to Coach Armstrong, I told him I looked forward to seeing him at the ballfields in the spring. Today I learned that I would see Coach in a much better place than a ballfield – I’ll see him in heaven praising Jesus. Of all the things said about Coach and many wonderful things were said, the greatest is the testimony he left to all those who know him – “He had peace with God” and I have to believe if he could speak to each former player, booster, administrator, fellow coach and family member he would say, “Don’t wait, find peace with Jesus today, if I had only known the blessings I was missing, the joy I was missing, I would not have waited until my death approached” – college is important, football is great, but eternal life with Jesus is for eternity. Thank you, Coach, for your testimony. That was a great inspiration to me today!!!
You and Murray were the first to greet us when we moved into Summereeve. We both loved to see your smiling faces and friendly waves when we saw you “walking the dog”. I never thanked you for letting me cut berries off your bushes to decorate for the home tour or for letting me pick some of your magnolia blooms since mine are unreachable.You’re a great neighbor and hope you will call on us anytime we can do anything to help you. Your family is in our prayers.
I just want to let the Armstrong family know that this entire community was impacted by Coach Armstrong. He was a strong man, a family ma, a man consumed with a committment and focus for his family and work. I will miss him very much and I know the family is very proud of their husband and father. I will miss him very much.
GOD Bless!!
Coach and Mrs. Armstrong, I wanted you both to know the impact you’ve had on the thousands of student atheletes that have come through the U of M program. Like many others I was a walk-on that eventually was awarded a scholarship. I attribute that to you Coach. Your impact on me as a student athelete cannot be put into words. I just wanted to let your family know how we will miss the Coach, the Father, the Friend.
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October 8, 2008 at 1:36 pm
Charlotte Peterson
Hey Coach,
I never played for you, but you sure have kept me straight through the years. I look forward to working with you this spring over at the ball fields. You are big help to me and you have also been an encourager.
Hope you are feeling better soon and see you at the fields!!!!!
Your fellow coach and friend,
Charlotte
October 8, 2008 at 1:38 pm
Cory Barton
Coach A and Mrs. A,
I wanted to let you both know that I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Although I have now left the U of M I will always be thankful that I had the opportunity to work with such a great man. I hope that everything turns out for the best and if there is ever anything that I can do to help please feel free to contact me.
Best Wishes,
Cory Barton
October 8, 2008 at 1:43 pm
Greg Clark
Without a doubt, my fondest (and not so fondest) memories are of Coach Armstrong roaming the halls of the dorm. I still wake my kids up every morning with the call, “get up, get up…it’s time to go to college!” I also remember the feeling that the “dorm daddy” was always there if you needed him. My days in the dorm would not have been nearly as awesome without Coach Armstrong and his family. Thank you, Coach, for your influence, leadership, and strength during a time when this young man needed it.
Sincerely,
Greg Clark
October 8, 2008 at 1:44 pm
Coach Maurice Knight
Coach we have a meeting at 4:30 am. This is a personal joke between Coach Armstrong and myself. Coach I am praying for you.
October 8, 2008 at 1:52 pm
Johnny White
Coach, Wish you the best, to you and your family…
You called me “Whizzer White” many times. I always will respect you,
and your daily effort, and attitude. Perhaps, on of the brightest
coaches I know. A great husband and father as well as Coach.
proud to have played for you, Your Trenton, Tn. friend, Johnny White
October 8, 2008 at 2:24 pm
Michael Kyle
The best special teams coach that the Tigers have ever had. We have never been the same since you left. You were a tremendous asset to the program and university.
October 8, 2008 at 2:25 pm
Tim McCormack
Big Daddy !!
I am forever grateful to you and Mrs. A for always being there for all of us in the dorm. Coach, I love and respect you more than words can express. You have been one of the greatest mentors in my life, and I would not be half the man or Memphis Tiger I am without your help. You made waking up every day in the dorm something to look forward to, with your calls of “College Time.” But of course my favorite was, “Isbell, get your coloring books and crayons, it’s College Time!!!! Coach, you and your family have meant so much, not only to me, but to thousands of young men who came under your tutelage at the U of M. I hope you are doing well and I know the family will take good care of you. Thank you for being one of my greatest teachers of life I have ever known and thank you for being my friend. You and your family are in my prayers daily. May God grant you strength and comfort in your hour of need. God’s Peace.
Your favorite trainer,
Tim (T. Mac) McCormack
October 8, 2008 at 2:26 pm
Bill Daniels
Coach,
In the years surrounding 1980 I was a club sport member of the handball team and a member of the Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity just down Normal St. from your athletic dorm. Consequently I ran into you quite often around campus. I remember so well how engaging you were to me on every occasion we met. You never failed to smile, greet me and take time to pass small talk.
I also recall you being present a few of the times I picked up Stan Bronson to give him a ride home from the athletic dorm area. I haven’t heard anyone mention Stan in a long time.
You meant a lot to many of us non-athletic scholarship students, too.
With fond memories and prayers,
Bill Daniels
Class of ’81
P.S. Coach Maurice Knight taught my civics class at East High School in Memphis. Hey Coach Knight!
October 8, 2008 at 2:39 pm
Jason Fogle
Coach A -
I wanted to let you and Mrs. A know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for all you have done for so many of us that were fortunate enough to be touched by your life. If there is ever anything that I may do for you or your family, please do not hesitate to call on me the way we all called on you so many times.
Sincerely,
Jason R. Fogle
October 8, 2008 at 2:40 pm
chris shackleford
Coach Armstrong, My name is Chris Shackleford and I played under Stobart and rip Scher from 93-95. You might not remember me, but I deff. remember you. That shows you what kind of a man you are. Inspirational,and memorable. Thank you for touching my life for the brief time we spent together.
GOD BLESS
October 8, 2008 at 2:49 pm
Ramon Aguillon- Class of 1997
Wish you the best coach, hope you have a speedy recovery!
October 8, 2008 at 2:59 pm
Jim Murdaugh
Coach or should I say “MAYOR”,
You have been a friend of my family going back to the old days with my dad. Hope you get to feeling better soon.
You and your family are in my prayers.
“Little” Jim Murdaugh
October 8, 2008 at 3:22 pm
Billy Beard
I hope this finds the “BIG VOL” feeling well and receiving all the care necessary. You were my first coach at MSU in 1963. I was a redshirt that had just been discharged from the US Army. Richard Coady and I played guards on your redshirt team.
It is nice to have this convenient way to communicate with you. I had hoped that you were going to be able to be at the reunion back in April but I was told you were feeling up to it.
I know you have been through alot fighting this cancer. Keep in mind you have many friends and ex-ballplayers that are thinking of you and will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. May God hold you in the palm of his hand and ease all your pain and give you the strength to handle what is to come.
Thanks for you guidance and help those many years ago. They were appreciate then and now.
Billy Beard
October 8, 2008 at 3:24 pm
Guy Wilkinson
Hey Coach it has been years since I have seen or talked with you but Mickey Watson and I share many good stories. We live in the same town (Camden, Tn.) and sit together at the football games. You and your family are in my prayers. You have been a postive influence in my life and I thank you for looking out for me and the rest of the football managers. Best wishes Coach!!
October 8, 2008 at 3:30 pm
Cary Schwartz
Coach,
I was not blessed to personally know you at the U of M in my short summer there, but I certainly enjoyed your talk to the Highland Hundred a year or so ago. Your stories of life in the dorms all those years ago were funny and touching. It is obvious you had a profound and wonderful influence on so many young students.
I will keep you in my prayers. So, for you, Coach, I give a big GO TIGERS! GO COACH!
Cary Schwartz
October 8, 2008 at 4:11 pm
Kevin Weaver
Coach,
I am praying for you and your family during this time. I lost my grandfather to lung cancer last month. He was diagnosed 10 weeks earlier and lost his battle soon after. Coach, as you know, I live in OAKLAND, so I will do anything that you need during this time. I spoke to Win Morre the other day and he said you had taken a turn for the worse. I wish I had been able to spend more time with you during my stay at Memphis. I always looked up to you and wanted to tap into your knowledge. I always enjoyed your stories and warnings of the S.W.A.M.P. I have truly looked up to you and wish you peace during this time. Thanks so much Coach for the memories. As a manager, my main priority was taking care of the “kicking balls” and you taught me so much.
Kevin Weaver
October 8, 2008 at 4:12 pm
GLENN SUMTER
HEY COACH A JUST WANTED TO LET U KNOW I’M PRAYING FOR U AND PULLING FOR U TO HAVE A SPEEDY RECOVERY!!! (SUMTER)
October 8, 2008 at 4:29 pm
Stephen Fowler
Coach A…loyal, dedicated, and a Tiger. It has been my pleasure to know you since the late 60′s. You are in my prayers. GO TIGERS!
October 8, 2008 at 4:39 pm
David Hernandez
coach,
I was blessed to see you on the spring in the baseball field this year….i will always remember every morning you knock on my door, how you confuse me with a cuban refugee…..you always wanted to send me back to cuba in a boat…..remember that morning you pretended my car was getting stolen in the parking lot…i’m still having flash back every morning…you deposit a good seed in me….thank you and you are already blessed
david (chico) hernandez
baseball 1981-83
October 8, 2008 at 5:14 pm
James Bailey
Coach A,
Well wishes to a man who always knew the right thing to say at the right time. Thanks for all of the guidance and inspiration.
October 8, 2008 at 5:20 pm
Don Holcomb
Coach,
It has been a long time since Robinson Hall but those years were the best of times. I will always remember that you had a word of encouragement for everyone. I will keep you in my prayers. May God Bless and Keep you.
Best Wishes,
Don Holcomb
October 8, 2008 at 5:36 pm
Ed Sheeler
Coach,
Although we’ve only know each other for a relatively short time, it has been my pleasure. I really enjoyed the times I spent listening to your football stories at Highland Hundred meetings, as well as, sitting in the locker room waiting for high school all-star and Liberty bowl practices to be over.
One thing I can assure you, you have always put a smile on my face each time we crossed paths.
Thank you for everything you have done for the Tigers and everyone you have touched. Keep your chin up!
We’re praying for you,
Ed and Karen Sheeler
October 8, 2008 at 5:37 pm
Ken Dunek
Dear Coach Armstrong: Years pass and memories fade…but you always remember imoirtant influences that have supported you in your life. As I made the transition from basketball to football, I will never forget how you encouraged me to “hang in there” and become a football player instead of a basketball player trying to play football. Well, 4 seasons of professional football and three championship rings later, I have been remiss in not reaching out and contacting you sooner.
The words are short, but the sincerity is genuine. I wish you well, and really could never thank you enough. I will keep you in my prayers as well.
Ken Dunek 1977-79 MSU Tigers
October 8, 2008 at 7:42 pm
Deangelo Williams
Hey let coach know im pulling for him he’s a strong will person and i know he will pull through. I remember Coach A. riding his mule around the fields make sure they were in tip top shape! I also remember coach yell at Gotti on field goals that it took him to long to kick the ball or him screaming give them hell men! Oh he’s an awesome coach and just let him know that I love him and that i know hes going to pull through this cause he’s Coach A.
Always A Tiger!
Deangelo Williams
October 8, 2008 at 8:28 pm
Chad Williams
Coach A,
You have had a profound influence on my life. I learned not only a lot about football, but a lot about how to be a man. I am proud to have been on the “Number One Big Ass Team” in 1992. I think of and talk about you often. You are in my prayers.
Chad Williams
Tiger Football 1990-1994
October 8, 2008 at 8:43 pm
Kenneth "Ziggy" Siegfried
Coach A,
I hate that you are having to go through these tough times. You have impacted so many peoples lives and that is a tribute to the person you are. Every former student-athlete I run into seems to always ask about you first. You are a loved person by the tiger family and I have always looked up to you for your dedication, loyalty, leadership, work ethic, etc, etc. If I can be half the person you are I would have led a successful life. I will be praying for you and your family during these tough times. By the way, I believe Deangelo scored 3 touchdowns for you this past week. We hope to see many more to come.
Sincerely,
Kenneth “Ziggy” Siegfried
Assistant AD for Development/ former student trainer 1999-2003
October 8, 2008 at 10:17 pm
Pam Jenkins
Coach A & Mrs. A,
What great memories I have when I hear your names! I tell everyone about the “rowboat theory” because we have to employ it a lot.
You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you both,
Pam
October 8, 2008 at 11:17 pm
Alfred "J.J." Hollis
Coach,
As a kid coming out of Illinois I was scared out of mind coming to Memphis State to walk on the football team. When I walked in the South Hall You were the first person I saw and I felt at ease. You made me feel welcome and I knew everything would be alright. I still remember everything from “Americas Team” to the Cowbell wake up calls during two-a-days!!! I am praying for you as I know all of the current and former Tigers are doing the same. Coach I will never forget you and how much your influence helped shape my life.
Alfred “J.J.” Hollis
Commissioner, Kankakee Valley Park District
Tiger Football 1989-1992
October 9, 2008 at 4:52 am
Marquis Bowling
Coach A, I know if there is anybody that’s strong enough to beat this thing it’s you. You will be in my prayers & after you beat this thing, we’ll go hit a few golf balls on field 2, just kidding Coach. Get well soon!
Tiger Football 1994-1999
October 9, 2008 at 7:53 am
Ronald McClain
“College time, college time….so get your BURR Rabbit notebook, your BURR Rabbit pencil and get to class”…..I think everyone that lived in SOUTH HALL has told stories of been awaken in the mornings by Coach A. You are a wonderful coach/man that has touched and influenced so many of young men. My prayers are with you!!!!!
October 9, 2008 at 8:33 am
Danny Armitage
Coach Murray,
All of the old housing people have asked me to send our thoughts and well wishes to you and Joan. The women up front miss your coming in the office and working your way through the system taking care of athletes. Although Joan may not miss dealing with “the new way” of housing, we miss her smile and her ability to work through issues and get things done. Please take care of yourself and make sure Joan is taking care of you as well. Our thoughts will be with you and the family Friday night at the game.
Sincerely,
Danny Armitage
Associate Dean of Students
October 9, 2008 at 8:48 am
Martha Woods
Coach and Ms. Joan,
Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of both you every day. You do know ya’ll are the greatest “Tiger Couple” in the world.
You are both in my prayers.
Love Ya’ll
Martha Woods
Athletic Media Relations
October 9, 2008 at 9:25 am
Michael Wilson
I just wanted to thank the both of you for being the strong mother and father figure of the student- athletes of South Hall! Coach you have always been a person who would tell us what we needed and not what we wanted to hear. The world would be a better place if you had more Coach Armstrongs’. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Michael Wilson
Tigers Basketball 94-96!
October 9, 2008 at 10:08 am
Ken Trocki
Coach and Joan, I fondly remember my years at Memphis State and living in the dorm. Your help and ,kindness will never be forgotten.
Your presence on the field and your involvement in Tiger football is a credit to our alma mater.During, my infrequent trips to see the Tigers play, I could count on speakin with you as though the years that had passed were an illusion.Your booming voice and quick wit was always a welcome home to a place where the memories were always good.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,get well and again stand on the sidelines like you had done for so many years,encouraging
The Tigers
Ken Trocki
1971-74
October 9, 2008 at 10:10 am
George Lapides
Murray:
Neither of us is young . . . heck, I remember that touchdown pass you caught for . . . well, the Vols. I was, I think, a 26 yarder. But mostly I remember all those times we have spent together here . . . when I would interfere with things in the old athletic dorm or on the football practice fields. By the way, have I ever thanked you for all those times you would haul me in that old golf cart from those practice fields back to my car? We have shared so many memories together for so, so many years. I saw you from a distance at the Rice game and tried to get your attention, but — as usual — you were plowing straight ahead and I was waiting to conduct an interview, so we didn’t make contact. But I’m sure you know how much you and the entire Armstrong family have meant to all those athletes that came under your “supervision” in the dorm. You always have been and you always will be an extra special person and you’ll be just fine because the man upstairs has a way of taking care of folks just like you.
George Lapides
October 9, 2008 at 10:41 am
Susan Day
Coach,
You can’t know how much it means for you to be at Wilson Air (no matter what time of day or night) waiting on the plane to come back home from a football game. You’re always there for a hug…..win or loose! Your big old friendly hugs are always so peaceful. I also can never get the jump on you with the home game “Officials” tickets. You always have to call and remind me to get them done. You’re a very special man to me and to lots and lots of others in this world!
Hugs,
Susan Day
Athletic Ticket Office
October 9, 2008 at 10:43 am
Kevin M. Robinson
Coach,
In all of my years of Memphis athletics, both as an athlete and as a coach, I can honestly say that you have had more impact on me than anyone else I have been in contact with. Rarely do people have the opportunity to meet and know someone of such passion, integrity, and resillence. I will never forget those mornings of you gently urging the occupants of South Hall to wake up and go to college!!! Okay, so maybe it wasn’t so gentle, and more than one trash can paid the ultimate price…
I look up to you in many ways. I hate to see such a great person have to struggle with such pain. I hope that you find peace, and know that in your great journey, you have touched more people than you can imagine.
You truely are an inspiration to myself, and countless others. My thoughts and prayers will be with you always!
With great respect,
Kevin M. Robinson
Head Track and Field Coach
October 9, 2008 at 11:02 am
Melissa Moore-Brigance
Coach & Mrs. A:
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have had the honor and privilege of knowing the Armstrongs both as a student and as a member of the athletic department family. I have wonderful memories of the entire Armstrong family whether it be of Mrs. A’s morning walks with Dutch or Coach A waiting at the airport for the plane to arrive no matter the time. There are stories galore and there isn’t a week that goes by that Eddie Cantler and I don’t sit down and relive one of them
I only hope and pray that when my two little ones make the journey off to college that there are special people in their lives like Coach A and Mrs. A to watch over them and guide them down the paths of college time and number 2 pencils. If I can be half the parent to my little girls that you have been to Sterritt and Brence then I know they will turn out as wonderful individuals.
Once a Tiger always a Tiger….
Melissa Moore-Brigance
Tiger Athletic Department
October 9, 2008 at 11:19 am
Bob Winn
Coach Armstrong
I know that I have shared many situations and stories with you and Mrs. A over the years and I treasure each and every memory. I have lived through numerous player incidents over the years that all seemed to put our program on the brink of disaster. But somehow we managed to get through each and every one and the athletic program continued to prosper and grow.
All of the “college-time” stories still continue to roll in from players of every sport and I realize how much you have meant to each and every person who has been involved with Tiger athletics.
I want you to know that without you, I would not be where I am today. I’m still not sure what you saw in an average second baseman from Roanoke, Virginia, when you came to Greenbrier Military Academy to recruit Joe Lynch and Bobby Huffman but I will be forever indebted to you for offering me a chance at Memphis State University.
You have taught us all how to fight the good fight and to battle to the very end. I will carry these life lessons forever.
Your friend and colleague.
Bob Winn
Associate AD
October 9, 2008 at 11:26 am
John Bomer
Coach Murray “The K” Armstrong
Robison Hall was just a step away from Heydon Hall and you knew every inch of the way. You invested yourself in a bunch of young men who needed a strong hand to guide them. There are a lot of IOU’s left outstanding to you from all of us that will never be repaid. You and Miss Joan were a stable example for me and others like me. For somebody from Somerville, TN and a product of Alex Moore yourself, you understand the importance of mentoring young people and setting proper examples. Dad talked with Alex today and just so you know a lot of people are praying for you and your family. I’m glad to this day that medical school didn’t claim you and that you found you’re way to the Univ of Memphis. I’m sure Dr. Jack would be proud.
By the way, if memory serves me you had a pretty good tennis swing both on and off the court.
John Bomer
Football 67-70
October 9, 2008 at 12:07 pm
Jimmy Keith
Coach A and family…
Words cannot do justice for the feelings and respect I have for you and your family. Nor can they accurately describe the impact you have had on my life and development. The stories and experiences will never be forgotten. I have you to thank for either directly or indirectly for where I am today. Without your influence and impact that helped keep me motivated I would not of had a great collegiate experience including the football, the academic awards, a debt free education, and the foundation of a work ethic that paired with my solid education has allowed me to become a successful Nurse Anesthetist. Who knows where I would be without your stories, motivation and memories.
God Bless you Coach A and Mrs A. You both have had such a tremendous impact on my life. None of the Armstrongs will ever be forgotten. If there is anything that I can do for any of you, please dont hesitate. You will all be in my prayers.
Brence and Sterritt, thank you for this opportunity.
Mrs A, thank you for all your love, support and hospitality in the past.
Coach A, I love you and the amount of respect for you and your family will never be expressed with justice.
God Bless
Jimmy Keith
Go Tigers Go
Memphis Football 94-98
October 9, 2008 at 12:33 pm
Susan Blackwell
Coach I always looked forward to it when you came in to get a few bills paid you would always give us a good laugh about someone you had a crazy nick name for. When I worked the Baseball games you always took care of me to see if I needed anything. You was always at the gate I could count on you.
Keep your head up and be strong. I don’t know anyone that is stronger than you. You and your family are in my prayers.
Love Ya’ll
Susan Blackwell
Athletic Business Office
October 9, 2008 at 1:45 pm
Lee Butler
In the course of everyone’s life we all have the opportunity to know a handful of people who make a profound effect and impression on our lives, and on the type of person we become. These few special individuals shape and mold us long after we move on with our lives. Coach Armstrong, you were one of those special individuals for me and many other players.
You and Ms Armstrong were parents to all who lived in South Hall. You were not only a coach, but a teacher of life lessons and a maker of men. With your words and actions, you taught us leadership, determination, integrity, dedication, loyalty, and commitment.
It is amazing to think, how many young men you influenced in such a positive way during your time at Memphis.
I want to say thank you and your family for all you did for the students-athletes that came through South Hall. Thank you coach for being a positive influence in my life.
May God bless you and your family.
Lee Butler
Football 1986-1989
October 9, 2008 at 2:38 pm
Ralph Hatley, Jr.
Dear Coach and Mrs. Coach
1971 seems like a lifetime ago and many years before that seems even longer, but as a “field house brat” growing up on campus, running the track, playing in the gym, literally living on campus every day, it was only natural that you both became my parents when I played football at Memphis State and you welcomed me into your dorm residence along with 80 other players and staff. You both, then and now, were a remarkable force in my life. One fond memory comes to mind about the “Jock dorm”… A bunch of us freshmen had been out on the town drinking at Uncle Sam’s on Madison…a guy with a gun came in and threatened us and we all booked it back to the dorm, one guy even ran all the way back. When we got back in our rooms and thought we were safe, here come the seniors, Stark and the others rousting us up out of our rooms and downstairs outside in the lobby near your apartment. It wasn’t long before you came out, I believe, in your pajamas or shorts and gave us hell about waking you and the family up. Needless to say, we obeyed your every command regardless and took it out on the field ourselves the next day with the seniors. Good advice Coach. We became more than just boys that day, we became men. We remained men because of what you and Mrs. Coach taught us through your examples!
My thoughts are with you all!
Thank you both also, for the enormous respect you always showed my dad.
Love you all
Ralph Jr.
October 9, 2008 at 4:09 pm
Ryan Ivey
Coach A-
Thank you for your dedication to so many stundet-athlete’s lives. Words can’t express what you have meant to me and the person I have become. Throughout an individual’s life, there are many people that will come and go. Some leave an impression, other’s fade quickly. You are one those people that make a difference in a person’s life. I hope and pray that duirng my lifetime I will be able to influence just one person’s life the way you have hundres of student-athletes.
Thank you for your courage, compassion, tough-love and wonderful life lessons. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
May God bless you and your family,
Ryan Ivey
October 9, 2008 at 6:47 pm
Jennifer Rodrigues
Coach A –
I hope that you take this time to look through all of these responses and know that you have touched so many people through the years. You are one of a kind and I am honored to have had the chance to spend time with you out on the practice field. I love the big bear hugs I would get and always smile when I think of you saying “Come here Sugar.” You were also always a welcome sight when we would come back from a road trip. I always knew I could count on you to help me out if I was ever in a bind. I can’t adequately express how much I appreciate you and care about you.
We all continue to pray for you and your family.
October 9, 2008 at 7:10 pm
Gary "Calfman" Knight
Coach A,
I remember your College Time, College Time as you opened my door. I was blessed to have you coach me on your JV team and to work for you and the kickers as a manager. My families prayers are for your pain to be eased, for your joy to increase with your family and I pray for your days to be long.
God Bless you and Mrs. A for your watchcare over a bunch of student atletes that needed you.
God Bless,
Gary “Calfman” Knight
October 9, 2008 at 10:32 pm
Ivory Ervin
Coach,
I am praying for you and my family and I understand what you are going through. I remember my time as Tiger. Even though I was not as talented as many of ther others I had so much heart. I loved playing for you and you taught about courage. I took those lessons into the United States Navy and it has gotten me through. Get well coach, you have alot more young men to coach!
Good Bless,
Ivory “TooCold” Ervin
October 10, 2008 at 8:25 am
Gary Connolly
Coach,
Along with many other Irish soccer players, I will never forget the advice about avoiding the swamp, and the many times you kept me and the rest of the lads in line around south campus!!
Get well soon Coach,
Gary Connolly,
#16 Mens Soccer 02-06
October 10, 2008 at 10:48 am
Bob McGoldrick
Coach,
I will never forget those days in Robinson Hall. Not only did you recruit me you made sure that year one (1) my room was positioned right over yours. What a better way to see what trouble I did, or did not get myself into. I will always remember your wit, smile and most important your support and the opportunity that you provided to me. I can still hear you calling me “ROBERT F” today and have told my children a lot about you. You have always been an encourager, motivator and a fighter. Keep fighting and smiling and work on your technique.
God Bless you
Bob McGoldrick
October 10, 2008 at 10:59 am
Buddy Lewis
Coach Armstrong,
I have not seen you in several years. I recall so vividly you and your family taking care of me when I was a manager during the 1970′s. You made such a tremendous impact on me and so many other people over the years. You may recall I was elected Sheriff of Tipton County and served for 17 years in that capacity. The impact you had on me during my years at Memphis State allowed me to better serve the citizens during my years in politics. THANK YOU! for the life you dedicated to working with young people and the positive influence you had on so many people. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. May God bless you!
Buddy Lewis
Covington, Tn.
October 10, 2008 at 1:54 pm
Sam Cox
Coach:
Many of the memories I have of working in the Athletic Department during the 90′s revolve around you. You always had a good word and taught me the ever important “rowboat theory.” A theory that still holds true today as all of us are “rowing” for you. You are an ispiration to all you have touched throughout the years. My prayers are with you and family.
God Bless,
Sam Cox
Former Ticket Manger
October 10, 2008 at 2:49 pm
Martha Higdon
Coach Armstrong,
You don’t know me but my husband, Ron Higdon,and my son, Rodney Higdon, played football for you. I just want to tell you that they both spoke highly of you. My dear husband went to be with our Lord August 29, 2007. He and his best buddy, Harry Day, are up in Heaven telling the same old football stories that they told down here many times. I just wanted you to know that I will be praying for you and your family during this time. Just lean on the Lord and he will give you comfort.
Lovingly in Christ, Martha Higdon
October 10, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Epperson, Jim
Coach Armstrong, I wish you and you family the very best. I know you want remember me but I remember you very well. In 1962 and 1963 you and Coach French were the 2 best coaches that I have ever had. You would kick butt when we were wrong but you would also give praise when due. You are a good coach but most of all a great person.
Jim Epperson
October 11, 2008 at 10:32 am
John Jacobs
Coach Armstrong, During my years at the university and then in the Highland Hundred I always looked looked forward to our senior banquet. The best part of the evening is when you told a true and always humorous,and embaraasing moment about each senior. I will never forget the looks on the boys faces when telling the story in your gruff and sometimes adults only content. The devotion you and your wife showed when you ran the dorm and then in coaching and other endeavors make you a living legend in University of Memphis Athletics.
I’m looking forward to seeing you back on the football practice fields,making sure everything in going smoothly and keeping pesky TV anchors from hitting golf balls on your beloved turf.
Good luck coach,
John Jacobs
Highland Hundred Board
October 11, 2008 at 12:17 pm
Mike Robb
Coach, When I came to Memphis I knew very few people, hardly anyone. You and your family made the athletic dorm a safe and warm place. It was more than just a dorm. You are a man of integrity, intelligence and love. When I think about the University of Memphis and the football team your name is the one I, and many others, think about first. You led with a strong and steady, although sometimes firm, hand. You showed up ready to work each day, expected no recognition and were a positive presence. You may have not sought recognition but you were noticed. Your life has inspired many, and I am one of them. May God Bless you and your family.
Mike Robb
October 12, 2008 at 1:44 am
Tom Wallace
Coach Armstrong, when I think back to my playing days you always come to mind. I still remember those days in the “valley” when as freshmen we had scrimmage against the varsity since there was no redshirt players. When we went to play our only freshmen game we had no plays or defense so you use the plays/defense of the last team the varsity played. I think we got beat by 30 points. No flying to the game, we drove by bus for 10 hours! Remember when we stopped for gas and you said we could spend $1.00. We cleaned out that little store and spent all our travel money. You had to call the school and have them wire money. After we lost you told us we could not go out but we did and all got drunk. When I got married in my junior year you found a home for me and my wife at Vet’s village. You were a leader, coach and friend to all of us. God bless you and keep you safe. When I go to church today you will be in my prayers. Tom Wallace
October 12, 2008 at 9:27 am
Carlos Navia
Coach and Mrs. A you took us all in to the dorm, looked out for us and treated us like family. I can never thank you enough for what you taught me. You are in our thoughts and our prayers. Coach was a great football coach as well as a great man off the field. I feel that im a better person for having known him. If theres anything you ever need dont hesitate to ask.
God Bless
Carlos Navia
October 12, 2008 at 1:22 pm
Gary M. Farr
Coach Armstrong:
First let me say THANK YOU; who better on this planet to have been placed in the lives of so many people over such a long time? God has great plans and He proves that by giving us leaders such as you and by letting so many share your wonderful family.
I can’t even begin to expound on my memories of you at Memphis State and from what I can see on this WEB site, there are many like me. You are solely responsible for making men out of boys and for keeping each of us in your book of names. Now it’s our turn to keep you in our hearts and prayers. I know it’s not a fair exchange because you gave us much more than we can ever give back but we can try to “pass it forward”.
I will loose many memories over the years; season records will fade, names of teammates will become harder to recall, even the smell of wet Memphis grass before a morning practice will go away but be assured you and Joan are joyfully emblazoned on my mind forever. I will end this as I started, thank you.
Regards,
Gary M. Farr
1971-1975
October 13, 2008 at 6:40 am
Keith Butler
Murray, Coach A, Mentor,
Thanks for showing me what a real coach is all about. There is an old saying in coaching, “I don’t care how much you know, until I know how much you care!” I didn’t deserve a family like You and Joan when I left Huntsville, AL to play football for Memphis State. Of all the times that you chased me to class and kept me out of trouble, I’ll never forget the night You and Joan came and got off the street after a frantic Kyle Hillard came and got yall after I had been hit by a car on Normal street. That night was indicative of how you and Joan and your family has always served the players that were fortunate to play at Memphis State when there was an athletic dorm. I’ve never been around a man that is as mentally tough yet more caring about the University of Memphis and the athletes that played there. There is a multitude of men out there that can say, I’m a better man because of Murray Armstrong, I’m one of many! I love you, Murray.
Keith Butler
October 13, 2008 at 9:22 am
Tim Duncan
Hey Coach,
it was a pleasure to name an award for you this year at the M Club Hall of Fame Banquet. I can’t think of anyone more deserving than you!
College-time, college-time!
October 13, 2008 at 10:58 am
Barbara Daniels
Coach Armstrong,
It was a great honor and privilege for my late husband Ray Daniels, to have had the opportunity to know you, and to know first hand what your life has meant to the TIGERS.
Thank you for the memories and stories that will be recalled in the future by the many fortunate enough to be touched by your life.
Your family has had such a positive influence on so many young men, and I would like to say, “Thank You” from the bottom of my heart, for allowing our family to have been part of something so special.
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Barbara Daniels and Family
October 13, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Barry Ray
Coach Armstrong,
I recently ran into Sterrit at the Memphis airport and he gave me an update on what your going through. I speak for all in the MUS family when I say that we are thinking of you and have always appreciated your friendship down through the years. Please know that you have always a part of our success – your knowledge of football is amazing.
Best wishes.
October 13, 2008 at 2:25 pm
Durwood Gordon
Coach Armstrong,
I always loved introducing you as the Coach of the 1965 Freshman National Champs. You, Coach Sam Carter, and Coach Billy Ray Farmer were the glue that kept our team together and most of all kept us in school. We were the first and maybe only undefeated freshman team that the Tigers ever had. We can thank you for that! You gave us the will to win and taught us how to win. You also taught us how to be gentlemen .
I can still see you standing on the front steps of Robison Hall when I first reported to MSU. You shook my hand, my father and brothers’ hands and hugged my mother. You told them to not worry about me . You were the Head Freshman Coach and you would take care of me. I’ll never forget that moment. Until then, I was one nervous eighteen year old. Coach Armstrong, you took care of a lot us Tigers. I want to thank you for all us !
I love ya!
Durwood Gordon
October 13, 2008 at 11:14 pm
Emma Hudgens
Coach Armstrong and Mrs. Armstrong,
I will always remember the warm welcomes I received at the baseball field the past two years. I always knew that Will could count on your help if he needed anything and that you would be there to keep him in line. I have enjoyed reading all of the wonderful stories and can only say it is amazing how one man and his family has touched so many lives.
Love and peace to your family.
Emma Crumby Hudgens
Memphis, Tn.
October 14, 2008 at 2:29 pm
Butch Frazier
Coach and Mrs. A,
There are no words strong enough to say exactly what I feel or describe the impact that you had on my life during the time I spent at Memphis State University/University of Memphis as an athletic trainer. When I moved into South Hall in 1988, you and Mrs. Joan welcomed me and treated me like family and became surrogate parents. You always made sure I was behaving and going to class and Mrs. Joan always made sure that I got something to eat and was always there to sew a button on my shirt if needed.
I swear, I still wake up and hear those words “College Time College Time, Frazier get your ass out of bed and get to class.”
Everyone of us that ever lived in South Hall or came in contact with you have stories to tell, stories that molded us and made us who we are, stories that taught us something about life or stories that just made us laugh and not take ourselves too seriously.
I will never forget the time you came into the training room during the spring and it was full of baseball players and you just stood there for what seemed like 5 minutes, shaking your head. Then you looked at Brad Seitzer and said, “Damn Seitzer, what the hell is going on, baseball is the only sport you have to get out of shape to play! All you have to do his pitch and catch!” I couldn’t quit laughing.
There are so many things that through my relationship with you that I learned and try daily to share with my family and our staff here at the hospital. Leadership, Strength and Integrity are definitely the big ones.
Please know that I count you in the short list of men that had a dramatic influence on my life.
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER GIVE UP!!!
Butch Frazier
CEO
Acadian Medical Center
Eunice, Louisiana
337-580-7506
October 14, 2008 at 3:52 pm
Steve Jaggard
Coach Armstrong,
You were always the steadying influence whether it be in the dorm, locker room, academics or on the field. You kept things fun but in perspective.
When I was a red shirt you always encouraged me; work hard and next year you will start. You were right. Along with Jerry Todd, David Berrong, we had one of the best defensive backfields in the country. As you used to say, after 5 years out of school everyone is an All-American.
Thank you for your guidance and the lessons you taught us. As I look around on my former teammates you made all of us better players and people.
The best to you and your family.
Steve Jaggard
October 16, 2008 at 6:58 pm
Ralph Hubbell
Dear Murray, Joan, and Family,
I will be putting a story on your story blog but I just wanted to say that ever since I learned of Murray’s illness from Joyce, Spooks secretary, I have been praying for all of you. Murray has been a big influence on my life and I hope he knows that I am so proud of him and how he has Positively influenced so many people at Memphis and all of Tennessee. My love to each of you.
Sincerely,
Ralph Hubbell
MSU Football 1965-1970
October 17, 2008 at 10:40 am
Jim Rapp
Coach A,
I have never forgotten my time at Memphis State and that is because of you. You and Mrs. A taught me more about life than anyone will ever know and it is hard to express in this message how much the Armstrong family mean to me because for a short period of time I felt like I was a part of that family myself. I will never forget the Christmas I was allowed to stay in the dorm by myself to help with the Liberty Bowl. I woke up Christmas morning to find a small gift outside my door. I remember a lot of Christmases with family and friend over the years but I will never forget that one.
I still tell the stories of “College Time” to the high school athletes I work with today along with many other lessons learned during my four years (3 in the dorm) under Coach A. Respect, accountability, determination, laughter, and kindness.
I am praying and thinking of you and hope this message finds it’s way to you. If you want to feel jolly you can just “fire” me one more time for old times sake.
October 17, 2008 at 12:05 pm
Ron Sells
Coach and Mrs.A,
It was great to see you the other night at the Hall of Fame Banquet and Congratulations on your award. I count myself fortunate to have known you and you have had a great impact on so many. Thanks to you and Mrs. A we stayed out of “The Swamp” at least most of the time and thank you for your influence on me and so many others. I can truly tell you sometimes when faced with a decision or challenge most people think back to someone they admire or respect. I can still hear the wake up “Whistle Blowing” down the floor of South Hall. We all become coaches of some kind later in life, I now have children and I can tell you I am a better coach to them and others because of a truly great coach, YOU. Alright Babe! I will leave you with this,
I remember a quote you told us one time that pops up in my mind sometimes, I thought it would make you smile that I could remember something.
“Success is Failure turned inside out, So, stick to the Fight when you are Hardest Hit, because it is then when things get tough that you must not Quit!”
You and your family are in our thoughts and Prayers
Ron Sells
October 18, 2008 at 7:15 am
Kevin Bryant
Coach,
Thank you for all that you have given to each of us during your time at South Hall. You and your family have been a blessing in many, many ways. Keep on fighting on but when your time does come please say Hello to my dad for me. May your spirits be high and your days be peaceful no matter what you face in the remainder of this life. May God continue to Bless in ways only He can imagine.
Kevin Bryant
October 21, 2008 at 9:19 am
Tony Semple
Coach A,
Just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate who you are and the position you held as a teacher to us. It’s not easy teaching men by talking, but one thing all men respect is one who leads by example. You are that individual and I am blessed to have had you look over me while I was in Memphis. The stories that I have read are all to true and make me smile and reflect on those special days. Coach you have changed so many lives that I know you may never realize how many, but I hope reading these letters brings back the same fond memories for you as it has for us all. You are a real legacy that really made a difference. I will pray tonight for you that God would comfort and heal you in this time if it be “HIS” will and also Thank “HIM” for allowing someone so special and impactful as you Coach Armstrong to be in my life and so many others. We need more special people in this world like you Coach A. Thank you for who you are and all you have impacted!
Tony Semple
Memphis Football
1989-2004
October 21, 2008 at 1:01 pm
Nelson Hunt
Coach and “Miss” Joan
It was good to see you at the banguet. I have seen a lot of notes from guys I know and that was great.
You and Joan are very special people. Coach you are like the really great teacher that you liked but did not fully appreciate the things he taught until later when you “grew up”. There is a special place reserved for you and Joan by the man upstairs for the countless lives you have touched and the way you touched them. I am a better, much better man for having come under your direction not only while in college but up until and including today. I love you both and I am as proud of the boys as you are. Heck I felt like I grew up with them!!
Nelson Hunt
October 21, 2008 at 2:59 pm
Gene & Jan Semple
Coach Murray – So sorry to hear of your illness. I know you met many parents through your years at Memphis State but none can be any more grateful than Gene and I. I remember our many visits to South Hall over the five years. You and your lovely wife were so gracious and we felt the tough love you showered on the guys. Tony would share many stories with us and we laughed together over the morning routines etc. You nurtured, encouraged, loved and disciplined our son like he was your own. (I know you treated the others the same). Tony, as he talked about you, would reveal his respect for you. I’m so glad he got to see you on his last trip to Memphis. You will live in his heart forever.
Gratefully,
Jan & Gene Semple
October 21, 2008 at 5:29 pm
Roberto Navia
Coach,
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your support and assistance. I’m sorry I lied, but it was Harris and them.
Roberto Navia
October 22, 2008 at 10:33 am
Gregg Hauss
Coach A,
I have many fond memories of life in the dorm and you coming to wake me up every morning for “College Time!” I remember one morning, however when you did not want me to go to college! I could not believe it! You asked if I wanted to be on a TV show as an football player extra with some of the players for a show called “The Mississippi.” What fun skipping class to be on TV! Most of my memories of you Coach were of you handing us “sorry kickers” the “chart” everday in practice to go kick our legs off! Thanks for pushing me to be the best! I appreciate your influence on my life during those four years! Know that I am praying for you! Jesus loves you, Coach!
Rev. Gregg Hauss
Football ’80-’83
October 22, 2008 at 10:27 pm
Steve King
Dear Coach Armstrong,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. I can say that you are “my coach and my friend”. From the first time you pick me up by making me a milkshake to keep my weight up after I caught the flu my first week of practice to the day I left Memphis State to take on my role with Coca Cola you have encourage me to keep on moving forward. I was blessed to be able to play for you and coach with you. You made me laugh, cry, picked me up when I was down and kicked me in my backside when I needed to get going. I watched you get excited when we won and agonize when we lost. You taught me to work hard and long to overcome. No one put more in the men of Memphis State than you did.
You and Mrs. Joan were my parents away from home and I love you for your sacrifice. Sterrit and Brent just had to give way to a lot of big brothers.
The most important lesson you taught me was to keep my faith. That is what has gotten me through and your source of strength and peace. I wish you and your family blessings and peace. I will always have you in my thoughts but most of all share our memories with my son. I added a couple of stories. It is only just since you gave me my nickname my senior year.
Love and God’s peace
Steve, Toni, Hannah and Adam King
October 22, 2008 at 11:31 pm
Steve King
Sorry Brence, I mispelled your name. You will have to forgive an old football player who went out there without his helmet too many times. What you don’t know if I babysat for you mom and dad at times and many times had to break you and your brother up so you would not get in trouble. If did give me a chance to add to what I said earlier.
Your family is very special to me and I appreciate being a part of it.
Mrs. Joan – thank you for the sacrifice you made which allowed Coach Armstrong to make an impact on us all.
October 24, 2008 at 1:53 am
The Donaldson's, Charlie, Rosemary & family
Murray, Joan, Sterritt, and Brence;
While the moment (1975-1978) was temporary, the memories will last forever. We had the priviledge of serving the University together during this brief period on life’s journey’s. Let’s never forget the times we were peeking at the mountain top of success. God gave us the opportunity to work with some of the universities best student-athletes who provided some of the biggest wins in the history of the University, but neither will we ever forget that dreadful walk from the football office on Sunday night, nor the drive from the Athletic Complex on Monday afternoon during the week of one of the University’s biggest opportunities. At this moment on the Universities journey, we were truly, “ROLLING ON THE RIVER, but the river suddlenly reversed direction and our 7-3 Bowl bound team saw the tangerines drifting out of reach on a flooded field at Southern Mississippi. Several on the coaching staff have gone on to other successful opportunities, even a few to the point of earning the RING. While most, if not all, of the student-athletes of the era are rocks of success in their chosen endeavors. There are enough stories from those four years alone, to create a number one, “BEST SELLER”, even if there were some, who thought there were more off the field, than on the field stories. The best I can remember, you have always enjoyed history. History reflects that those four years produced enough wins that it took serval staffs and many years of competing to equal/exceed the level of accomplishment of those student-athletes. Murray, you and I know life is too short for yesterdays, it moves along to fast. The enjoyment of living is not where we have been, it’s looking ever forward, to another year and ten. Your career is a long and distinguished one and as the Lord said to the servant to whom he had given the five talents (MATTHEW 25:21)…Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things. We share many fond thoughts, saying’s and memories from that era, but one that stills rings in my ears is: HEADS, HEADS, KEEP YOUR HEAD UP! May GOD bless you and heal you and wrap a protective arm of love around the Armstrong family. The Donaldson’s, Charlie, Rosemary & family.
October 26, 2008 at 11:43 pm
Jeff Harrison
Coach Armstrong,
Thank you so very much for all the wonderful things that you did for me while I was a walk-on football player for the 83-84 seasons. You treated the walk-ons with the same respect, compassion and toughness as the scholarship players. On two separate occasions, myself and Clarke Wright were promised to be able to dress out for 2 home games. Coach Dempsey, chose to let other northern players dress out instead of Clarke and myself. You were not going to have any of that. You took care of the situation and the two of us dressed out. If it hadn’t been for you, we would have never dressed out a single game. You also wrote a great letter for me to enter into the US Navy as a pilot. I wound up serving 9 years as a naval officer first and a pilot second. I learned from you what it is like to be a great leader. The most important thing that I learned from you was how to take care of people.
Coach A. You are a great man and I will be praying for you, Joan and the boys.
Best wishes Coach.
Jeff Harrison, DB, 83-84
October 27, 2008 at 8:39 am
Glenn Rogers jr. & Glenn Sr.
Coach Armstrong we are definetly praying for a speedy recovery. We hope that all is well with your family. We know that you’re in GOOD hands with the LORD, Mrs. Armstrong along with the boys and the Tiger nation by your side!!! Kyle Morris wanted me tyo say hello. (The QB from Florida) He’s still trying to chase me down!!!
Thanks for all of the good memories over the years. And a special thanks to you and Mrs. Armstrong for being there for all of us during our time at South Hall!! May GOD continue to smile on you and your family!!!
October 29, 2008 at 6:15 pm
Lin Bloodworth
Coach Armstrong, I can never repay all that you have done for me and my family. I have always had a place in my heart for you for the kindness you have always shown me, and will never be forgotten. God has a special place in haven for you Coach. Al told me some time back that the two people that had the most influence in his life was you and myself. I am so humbled to be with you in the Al’s special thoughts. The Bloodworth’s are a much better family, just by knowing you, than we could ever wish for. Our thoughts and prays are with you my friend. Hug Joan for us. Love you Coach A
Lin Bloodworth
November 6, 2008 at 8:31 am
Jeb Hill
I would just like to add my thanks to you for all that you have done for our University. It is always awe inspiring to read of how something that starts out as a simple “job” has turned into a life that has touched so many lives in a positive way when you step back and look at it. God does place us where he wants us to be.
You have been and remain a blessing to us all
Jeb Hill
2008 Highland Hundred President
November 6, 2008 at 9:38 am
Ray Wallace
Coach Armstrong & Mrs. A,
I too like so many others have been influenced by your kindness, dedication and guidence that you so willingly gave to everyone you touched. You were always there for anything that anyone needed, your door was always open. There are some many great stories that surround you career at Memphis State and when the former players reminiscence yours are always the best and most remembered. As a freshman, I was told that you don’t want to play tennis with Coach A because he’ll be striking your butt instead of a ball if you miss curfew! Your booming voice calling the special teams to gather during a game will never be replaced. We miss seeing you make your way to your stadium seats on the 50 yard line before and at half time!
Coach, you are loved and respected by some many many people and the University has had many Head Coaches over the years, but I know that I share the same feelings as so many other players in saying that YOU have ALWAYS been OUR COACH! My God bless you and your family our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ray Wallace
1971-1974
November 6, 2008 at 11:14 am
Matt Smith
Coach,
Thanks for always being there and supporting me throughout the years. First as a kid running the campus just like Sterritt and Brence, then as a father figure that I needed during my “official student” time there at Memphis State. My first official “college time” wake up call is something I will always remember. I can still hear the keys and doors slamming coming down the hall. We all learned a ton from you and are better from having you touch our lives.
You know the campus was like home for me, and you sure helped me know that either as a student or visiting, it is home. And thanks for all of your support and friendship for my dad over the years as you both managed through all of the changes. You are an institution and are the Memphis State memory that all of us fondly recall as we think about our time there.
And Mrs. A, any of us that did spend time in the dorm know who was equally in charge and who we could turn to when we needed something. Thanks for all you did and all that you continue to do.
And Sterritt and Brence, thanks for this site. Whenever I am back in Memphis I will try to look you up and recall our unique time as Campus Kids running around and bugging many of athletes and previous posters on this site. And we alone were probably responsible for a large percentage of the athletic tape usage as I am sure you were taped from head to toe and left at your apartment door many times like me.
Take care and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Matt “Little Doc” Smith
or Mattis Manningly to Coach
November 6, 2008 at 12:12 pm
Tom Barton
Thank you for your dedication to the U of M for all these years. In 1972 as an incoming freshman to have you say, I will take care of you, your one of my West Tennessee Boys, I knew I had nothing to fear. Thanks for everything.
Tom Barton
November 6, 2008 at 12:25 pm
Scott Scherer
Coach A,
First, let me say that both you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. While there are already plenty of reasons to admire you, your toughness and unbreakable spirit in the face of adversity emphasizes even more why so many people have looked up to you over the years. The lessons and words of advice that I received from you still stick with me to this day. When I came to Memphis as a walk-on, sitting at the bottom of the QB depth chart, you constantly kept me motivated. You were one of a very small group that truly believed I’d make it as a QB at Memphis. I will always remember you telling me that I was a football player and that I did belong there, even when it appeared I may never get a chance to play. You have no idea how much those words meant when I was struggling to find confidence in my first couple years at Memphis. Your lessons went beyond the field. I remember you stressing to get my master’s degree, and now I am in the process of doing just that at Georgia Tech. So much that I learned from you at the U of M helped me succeed in football and in the classroom.. but more importantly, they have helped me succeed in life. I wish you nothing but the best, and hope you continue to be blessed.
Scott Scherer
November 6, 2008 at 12:38 pm
Clark Wright
Coach Armstrong -
Winston Churchill once addressed a group of college graduates and simply stated these words “NEVER GIVE UP,” “NEVER GIVE UP” and simply walked off the stage. Coach, you taught us how to persevere and move forward in spite of our circumstances. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t reflect upon my time at Memphis and the lessons that were learned – especially the value of an education.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Clark Wright
Tiger Football 1982-1985
November 6, 2008 at 12:41 pm
George Skouteris
Dear Coach Armstrong,
I just wanted to let you know how much you and your family has meant to me since I met you in 1982 as a transfer from UT Knoxville. You welcomed me into your South Hall home and always treated me like your son. Sometimes, that involved tough love as you “motivated” us out of bed and into the classroom or onto the football field. The lessons you taught me during that time still inspire me in both practicing law and raising my own family. We shared the best of times by finally having a winning season as well as the worst of times when we lost Coach Dockery and others in the plane crash. You have truly touched hundreds of lives in a positive way and for that we are grateful. Many thanks for the hundreds of milk shakes Mrs. A made for me when I had Mononucleosis and couldn’t eat. I still feel bad about parking my motorcycle inside the dorm and getting you in trouble with the firemarshall. This summer, I played golf with Mike Omar, John Bowers and Stan Weaver and we laughed until we cried telling “Murray” stories. I hope you know that if there is anything you or your family ever needs, please let me know.
George Skouteris
Football 1982-1984
November 6, 2008 at 1:34 pm
Jason Curtis
Coach, Hang in there you are in my prayers. You never met a stranger and never forgot a face. Thank you for leading and inspiring so many young men.
November 6, 2008 at 1:53 pm
Dave Wicker
The only contact I had with you was at a football camp I attended at U of M back in the mid 90′s. You were on the practice fields and I was trying to learn to long snap and you seemed to get a kick out of the fact I was pretty bad at it…you did however give me a few pointers that helped me at least make it through camp.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dave Wicker
November 6, 2008 at 2:44 pm
Scott Singler
Coach Armstrong,
Living in South Hall was one of the best experiences I’ve had. You and Mrs. A when out of your way to make it as homey as possible. One of my favorite memories has to be when Perez, Wiley, and I got arrested for streaking across campus in the fall of ’91. I remember we were naked, with hands cuffed behind our backs sitting there when out of nowhere you busted through the door. The three of us were scared sh*** at the thought of you coming to pick us up, but as it turned out, you couldn’t have made it any easier for us. I wish you and the family the best and will keep you in my prayers.
November 6, 2008 at 3:09 pm
Danny Smith
Coach Armstrong and Mrs. Joan and the boys ARE what made and makes the U of M special- not just another school. Our family has always loved and
admired you all. My father, Dr. R.E. Gene Smith always has and always will
love you all as do all of us. I know personally that it is true that the Armstrong’s raised 1000s of young men and no one could have done it better! Let me take this time to thank coach and Mrs. Joan for letting me
ride along for a few years and really the U of M was home to us all- thanks
to coach for the field passes all those years and letting me jump on the bus
for practice and games at the stadium- I’ll never forget any of you and god bless coach Armstrong.
Your friend always,
Danny Smith
November 6, 2008 at 4:15 pm
Kevin Cochran
Coach,
I worked as a student assistant in the Athletic Business office. You always treated me with the same respect and love that you did the athletes. I appreciated that very much. I also admired the consistent and solid work ethic that you demonstrated with every task you took on. Mrs. Armstrong has always been so sweet and loving as well. I am praying for both of you. “Big Time College Football” will never be the same.
Kevin
November 6, 2008 at 8:15 pm
The Brown Family
Dear Coach and Mrs. Armstrong,
Thank you for the kindness and consideration you have shown to our family especially two little girls who care nothing for football. You have been a great example to all of us about a good attitude and perseverence. We are so greatful to know you through our relationship with the U of M. Eventhough both of our girls never knew their grandfathers, you are the man they picture their grandpa would be like. We are praying for you.
Congratulations on that new grandbaby!
Love,
All Us Browns
Jack, Terry, Maeji and Abby
November 6, 2008 at 8:46 pm
Susan Brown
Dear Coach Armstrong,
I was so sorry to hear of your illness and will be praying for you and your family. You and Mrs. Armstrong were so kind to me and helped me when I started as an academic counselor for student-athletes at MSU in 1992. I remember eating dinner with you at South Hall before my late nights at Study Table and enjoying your humor and wisdom. Thank you for caring about so many people. I hope you sense how many people care about you.
Susan Irwin Brown
November 6, 2008 at 10:55 pm
Terri Weaver
Coach A.
How can I ever tell you how much the years I worked at South Hall for you and Joan meant to me? I was a long way from home and family so your family became my family as well.
I’m not sure you ever called me by my actual name. After all the years with Tina Smyth having worked for Joan, you started out calling me Tina instead and eventually you just shorted it to “T”…many mornings the first voice I heard as I walked in the door for the breakfast shift at the meal list was your deep gravelly greeting, “Mornin’ T!” as you passed me on your way up the stairs and began the morning routine “College Time, College Time, Get your college rule paper and your number two pencils its time to Go to College!” or some similar variation and when you arrived home in the afternoon the first thing you asked me was usually “Where’s Moose?”
Sterritt was away at the academy then so I didn’t ever get to know him nearly as well as I did Brence. Brence was the little brother I never had. I will never forget how he would come barreling through the door after school, drop his books and plop down in front of me and demand “Back Attack!” that was my cue to stop whatever I was doing and scratch his back. I tormented him like a big sister too. Particularly when “Aaa-mee called” (Hopefully he’ll laugh when he reads that.)
I was as at home in the apartment at South Hall as I was in my parent’s house and I will be forever grateful for the way you welcomed me into your family and the way you watched over me once I was there. I always knew where I stood with you. When I did well you showed your appreciation. When I screwed up you still had my back. Leaving South Hall when I graduated was as hard as leaving home for College had been.
Harold and I are praying for all of you as you battle this thing. We love you all very much and hopefully we can see you in person soon. It has been far too long.
Love hugs and prayers.
T
November 6, 2008 at 11:21 pm
Jason Kennedy
I wish you and the family the best, Coach A.
You always thought of us as men. Regardless of what happens, know that you leave behind 46 years of men that will remember you for generations to come.
From College Time to the Swamp, you’ve instilled wisdom in thousands of young men, including myself. And that will forever endure.
Take care, Coach A.
November 7, 2008 at 8:15 am
Dale Brady
Hey Coach,
My prayers and thoughts for you, Joan and the boys! I will always remember our freshman bus trip to S. Illinois. It had been a long bus ride and we all were so hungry and you said,”I am so hungry I could eat the bottom of a rag doll”.
You and Joan were so special to the athletes while playing and after graduation. Braxton will always remember those days at the dorm playing with your son Brince. Thank you so much for all that you have done for thousands of athletes! We love you coach.
Dale Brady
November 7, 2008 at 11:07 am
Reggie and Kristen Miller
Coach Armstrong,
This is Reggie Miller’s wife, Kristen. Reggie looks up to you so much and cares about you like you wouldn’t believe. He talks about you all of the time and how good of a man you are and so strong. He always talks about how much you love your job and the people around you. We are thinking and praying for you EVERYDAY! If you need anything at all you know he is there to help you.
Love,
The Millers
November 7, 2008 at 11:16 am
Clyde Israel
August 7, 1965
Dear Freshman Footballer,
In just a few short weeks you will be a part of the sweep and excitement of the most exciting sport on the American Scene today, Collegiate Football. Collegiate Football, the sport that is the healthiest adjunct to shaping the “whole man” that is the goal of a Liberal Education. Collegiate Football, a sport whose signifiance is that it is a dynamic encounter with another and one’s self that is real, concrete,naked and out in the open for all to witness.
Let me introduce myself to you. I am Coach Murray Armstrong a graduate of the University of Tennessee in Knoxville. I am your Freshman Coach. My job is to give you a smooth initiation into the college classroom and onto the playing field. Ahead of you lies the finest years of your life. I am going to try and make them as comfortable and enjoyable for you as possible.
I would like for you to start running some every day. Your leg muscles need to be in condition when you arrive. Your freshman schedule includes three freshman games that will be played in Memphis. At present we are trying to schedule a fourth. The University of Miami.
You will be hearing from me every week until the beginning of football practice September 1, 1965.
Looking forward to seeing you,
I am
Sincerely Yours
Coach Armstrong
Memphis State Univ.
Coach, I came across in this when my mom passed away in 1987, from all the notes, testimonials and tokens of appreciation, it is more than obvious It was a job very well done.
Thanks from the boys of Robinson Hall
Our continued love and prayers,
Clyde and Charlotte Israel
“Captain” of the Freshman National Champions 1965 (your appointment)
surely not one I earned.
November 7, 2008 at 1:28 pm
Tim Cook
Coach Armstrong
I wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers, as well as my church’s prayer list. I trully feel that you made a huge difference in my life as well as every athlete that lived in South Hall. I have a story or two to tell on the blog page.
Memphis State (as I know it) has been blessed by your presence and AUTHORITY. Tell the boys hello and give Miss Joan a hug from me.
I do miss the morning wake up “College Time”.
Thanks for your care and God Bless you all.
Tim Cook, PA-C, ATC
1982-1987
November 9, 2008 at 8:27 pm
Amy French Thornton
Coach and Mrs. A
Thank you for taking me in and making me feel like a part of your family. I was a trainer and also worked at South Hall for Mrs. A. I admire the way you, Coach, treated everybody with respect. You treated the managers and trainers with the same respect as the starters. I loved the sayings on your door. My favorite “Your actions speak so loud I can’t hear a word you say.” I use that saying with my own players and students today. Mrs. A., I can’t thank you enough for always being there for me, especially when the ice storm came and I had no place to go. I’m praying for you,Coach, Mrs. A, Sterritt, and Brence.
November 10, 2008 at 11:29 am
Reba Claunch
Coach…you are the man….I met you when I was just a ticket writer here at the University some 25 years ago. I would patrol by SouthHall and you would say to me in your deep southern voice “Suga if they are parked wrong, go ahead and give them a ticket” he was talking about the athletes that would park all around Normal street in violation of parking rules. Just that phrase from him “Suga” made me feel special…. Coach I loved you then and I love you now….Best Wishes to you and your family….
Reba
November 10, 2008 at 10:11 pm
todd hutchinson
Coach Armstrong,
Just was reading the paper and saw your story.. Have been a fan of memphis state since my early days growing up in ne mississippi. As a high school coach, i hope i have and will touch just a part of the many lives you have when i am done.. Sounds like you did it the way it was supposed to be done. Hope you feel better and the tigers make it to a bowl and calipari can win a few games!!! My prayers are with you. Todd Hutchinson, Boys Basketball Coach, Grenada High School..
November 11, 2008 at 3:00 am
Cheri
Hi Coach Armstrong and Joan,
When we are not able to see wonderful people it is nice to have the wonderful memories.
My thoughts and Skeeter’s (I feel I can speak for him) echo the voices above. As I read through them the one thing I see missing of which he always spoke was how smart you are. You know football and you know people. Your magical touch makes people want to be better just being around you.
I don’t know if Spook ever told you this but when I was pregnant with mine and Skeeter’s first child Spook wanted me to stay in the football dorn when the team traveled out of town. He felt like Skeeter would play better knowing the Armstrongs were taking care of me. I appreciated the thought but just could not picture myself pregnant in the football dorm. We settled on a plan where Mrs. Murphy would call me before half time so she could report to Spook who would pass the info along to Skeeter.
I have fond memories of hanging in the lobby after games with you all, Al Harvey, Joe Lynch, Palmer Smith, John Allen, Steve DeLong, Charlie Babb, John Kirchner, John Bomar, Buddy Mauer, Carey Mulwee , Dave Pawlick, Ray Jamison and Larry Shelley. It was such a safe place and a fun place.
You two, as a team, created a very unique life for yourselves. Thank you both for allowing so many of us to become part of your family. It was a gift we will all treasure.
I will keep the entire Armstong family in my prayers. Enjoy the pretty weather. This is your season.
Cheri Gowen
November 13, 2008 at 8:57 pm
Jonathan Cirtain
Hello Coach Armstrong,
I was so sorry to hear of your illness. You were always a positive influence on me and it was my privilege to play under you. Your references to tennis always made the technique clear, and your devotion to the payers always provided perspective. I hope and prey you are well and comfortable.
Your friend and fan,
Jonathan Cirtain
November 14, 2008 at 3:29 pm
marie
Murray and Joan
You all are in our prayers…You and I go back longer than anyone on this site….Pre-K it think…Birthday parties before than. Other than the fact you are male you would probably been in the Awful Eight at FCHS. You and your buddies far surpassed us in trouble (not caught). Once we all left college our lives took different directions. Yours has meant so much to so many…Not many can say that. I have read the posts and you both have truly left your mark on many young lives. Enjoy the grandchild. They are very very special.
November 20, 2008 at 12:51 am
Jarvis Greer
Coach Armstrong,
Everyone is truly blessed to have come under the direction of the Great Booming Voice of “The Dorm Daddy”.
It didn’t matter to you that i was a walk-on. I was your “Running Back” on the Freshman team.
When i later earned a scholarship as a DB, you were still the same.
That’s the “Unique” thing about you. You shoot straight, tell the truth -whether we wanted to hear it, or not- and you ALWAYS had our best at heart.
It would be cool if my Son, who’ll be a Tiger Soccer Player next year, could have you walk into his room EARLY in the morning with those Immortal Words, “College Time, Off Yo Ass and On Yo Feet! Time to get some Knowledge!”
I’m sure he would “enjoy” that after hearing me tell stories of my years at the U of M in South Hall.
You used to call me Jawvus the Pawvus. While i had no idea what a “Pawvus” was, it didn’t matter, because at least you cared enough about me to give me a nickname!
The term, “Dorm Daddy” is perfect for you. You clearly were The Man of the House. You and Mrs. Armstrong took care of us all and expected us to behave like men, or soon grow to be men.
Whether we did or not, you were still there, just like a true Man. A true Father!
Keep ridin’ that Cart, Coach Armstrong!
Jawvus the Pawvus is Pulling for YOU!
God Bless you and your Family!
Jarvis Greer
Tiger Football 1975-’78
November 29, 2008 at 9:40 pm
Chad Williams
Joan, Sterritt, and Brence,
I am so sorry for your loss. Coach Armstrong was one of the greatest men that I have ever known. He had a tremendous impact on my life and he will be greatly missed. You all are in my prayers.
Chad Williams
November 29, 2008 at 10:11 pm
Tim McCormack
Dear Mrs. A, Sterritt, and Brence,
I am deeply saddened by your loss. And “our loss”. Coach Murray Armstrong was one of my most influential mentors of my life. A small piece of a great man will live in me forever, just by having known and loved him, and by being loved “by” him, for he loved all of his boys. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief.
Please allow me to share a prayer with you from the Episcopal book of Common Prayer.
“Into your hands, O merciful savior, we commend your servant Murray. Acknowledge, we humbly beseech you, a sheep of your own fold, a lamb of your own flock, a sinner of your own redeeming. Receive him into the arms of your mercy, into the blessed rest of everlasting peace, and into the glorious company of the saints in light. Amen.”
“May his soul and the souls of all the departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen”
With much love,
Tim McCormack
November 29, 2008 at 10:52 pm
Pam Jenkins
Dear Joan and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with in the loss of your wonderful husband and father and our great friend. There is a large hole in your hearts right now and I hope warm memories and the well wishes of friends will help heal that wound.
Love,
Pam Jenkins
November 29, 2008 at 11:23 pm
J D Dickerson
God bless Murray Armstrong.
Love,
J D
November 30, 2008 at 1:15 pm
Jeffery S Eldred
Mrs. Armstrong, Sterritt, and Brence,
The world has lost one our greatest people. Coach Armstrong truly made a difference on this earth with all people that he influenced in a positive manner. You are in all of our thoughts and prayers.
With Love,
Jeff, Julia, Lindsey, Craig And Patrick Eldred
November 30, 2008 at 6:09 pm
Marlowe Hinson
Sterritt and Brence,
When my brother and I returned to Memphis in the spring of 1992 after losing our father, Coach Armstrong was the first face we saw. He showed a deep concern for us and our family. He knew our dad was a high school principal and he had played against my dad in college (UT vs. FSU 1958). He told me and my brother that our dad was a great man because he served others. Likewise, I want the two of you to know from me, your father was a great man because he served others and he will be first in the kingdom of heaven. Thank you for sharing him with me and so many others like me. I pray that the Lord gives you peace and understanding during this time of trial. Mrs. A., thank you for including me and so many others as a part of your family. My heart is with you all and I mourn with you in your time… our time of loss.
In Christ,
Marlowe Hinson MSU 1989-92
November 30, 2008 at 11:31 pm
Elsie Trail Guthrie
Dear Joan, Sterritt, and Brence,
I was so saddened when I heard on the news about Murry. I will always remember Richard’s and my time at Memphis State with all of you. I still love all of you, and will remember you in my prayers. I know that Richard and Murry are having a good visit in Heaven.
Elsie
December 1, 2008 at 8:15 am
Ken Dunek
To the Armstrong family, and to all who knew and loved Coach Armstrong:
I would like to be remembered the way Murray Armstrong will be remembered. A man who lived passionately, who loved unconditionally, and worked tirelessly in what he believed.
Thanks for everything Coach…you will be missed.
Ken Dunek
MSU Tigers 77-79
December 1, 2008 at 11:26 am
marie
The class of 55 has lost a special member. You all are in our prayers. Murray touched so many young lives in athletics and made such a difference in what they became once that part of their lives was over. Many of us in the class of 55 have so many fond memories of Murray and those will stay with us. He was a true Volunteer.
December 1, 2008 at 2:54 pm
Mark "Coolidge" Copley
Although we have lost a true giant of a man heaven has gained what we have lost. Although my first experience with Coach A was a scary one, he turned out to be one of my closest friends while working in athletics. The morning after my first game filming and editing a 1989 football game I received a voicemail from Coach A saying “Copley if I could find you right now I’d kill you. Where is my VCR”. You see I swapped his VCR for another one and he didn’t like that. But what started out rocky ended up being a man I looked up to tremendously. Everyone has there favorite saying by Coach but mine has to be “Whatever is NO!” I also loved hearing from the sidelines during the games Coach A hollering kicking team get ready even though it was only 2nd down. Coach A took pride in his kickers and snappers and truly cared for them. Not only has the U of M lost a ICON but so has the world of sports. Mrs A I know Coach loved you with all his heart. Sterritt when you went West Point your dad could not have been prouder, and Brence I know how much your dad loved having you as a part of his beloved kicking team. Mrs A, Sterritt, and Brence my prayer for you is that Christ Jesus will grant you a peace that passes all understanding.
In Christ
Mark “Coolidge” Copley
Video Coordinator 1989-1994
December 3, 2008 at 12:35 pm
Rusty Foster
I was very sorry to hear of Murray’s passing. I used to play tennis with Coach Armstrong some 25 years ago. I have read all of the caring comments above. What a wonderful legacy to a good man.
December 3, 2008 at 8:03 pm
Charlotte Peterson
In October, when I wrote a note to Coach Armstrong, I told him I looked forward to seeing him at the ballfields in the spring. Today I learned that I would see Coach in a much better place than a ballfield – I’ll see him in heaven praising Jesus. Of all the things said about Coach and many wonderful things were said, the greatest is the testimony he left to all those who know him – “He had peace with God” and I have to believe if he could speak to each former player, booster, administrator, fellow coach and family member he would say, “Don’t wait, find peace with Jesus today, if I had only known the blessings I was missing, the joy I was missing, I would not have waited until my death approached” – college is important, football is great, but eternal life with Jesus is for eternity. Thank you, Coach, for your testimony. That was a great inspiration to me today!!!
December 4, 2008 at 10:09 am
Carol George
You and Murray were the first to greet us when we moved into Summereeve. We both loved to see your smiling faces and friendly waves when we saw you “walking the dog”. I never thanked you for letting me cut berries off your bushes to decorate for the home tour or for letting me pick some of your magnolia blooms since mine are unreachable.You’re a great neighbor and hope you will call on us anytime we can do anything to help you. Your family is in our prayers.
December 5, 2008 at 10:49 am
Joe McCormack
I just want to let the Armstrong family know that this entire community was impacted by Coach Armstrong. He was a strong man, a family ma, a man consumed with a committment and focus for his family and work. I will miss him very much and I know the family is very proud of their husband and father. I will miss him very much.
GOD Bless!!
December 8, 2008 at 7:01 pm
Levon West
Coach and Mrs. Armstrong, I wanted you both to know the impact you’ve had on the thousands of student atheletes that have come through the U of M program. Like many others I was a walk-on that eventually was awarded a scholarship. I attribute that to you Coach. Your impact on me as a student athelete cannot be put into words. I just wanted to let your family know how we will miss the Coach, the Father, the Friend.
Levon West
MSU Tigers 80-85
December 8, 2009 at 12:24 pm
Rob Bertling
Coach A,
I can’t believe it has been over a year since your passing. We miss you greatly and have not, nor will not, forget you! God Bless!